Coretan Kisah

Tips Membakar Ayam

2011-11-15T20:43:00.000+07:00

Terkadang kita sengaja meluangkan waktu untuk membuat masakan sendiri bersama keluarga. Namun saat membuat ayam bakar, ayam yang dibakar seringkali rasanya pahit atau masih mentah bagian dalamnya. Bagaimana cara membakar ayam yang benar?

Ayam yang dimatangkan dengan cara dibakar, biasanya sudah dimasak dahulu dengan bumbu hingga matang. Proses pembakaran hanya untuk mematangkan bagian luarnya saja. Bisa juga ayam yang sudah direndam bumbu, dalam keadaan mentah langsung dibakar. Karena itu perhatikan cara membakar yang benar. Jika memakai api arang, gunakan api arang dengan panas sedang. Gunakan panggangan yang cukup dalam sehingga jarak api dan ayam yang dipanggang cukup. Jika terlalu dekat maka bagian luar ayam cepat matang atau gosong tetapi bagian dalamnya masih basah atau mentah. Jangan lupa balik-balik ayam hingga matang kedua sisinya dan agak kering.

Sumber : Detik.com

My Love In Japan

2011-08-05T03:27:00.001+07:00

My Love In Japan. Hari itu kebetulan teman ayahnya vienzha datang berkunjung, saat itu keluarga vienzha sedang kesulitan keuangan, meskipun dibantu oleh kakaknya tapi tetap saja pengeluaran masih lumayan besar. Lalu teman ayahnya vienzha yang bernama om Hari itu nawarin kerjaan tapi di luar negeri jadi TKI tepatnya di Jepang, selama 3 bulan di training dulu baru di kirim ke Jepang, ya katanya sech balas budi soalnya dulu berkat bantuan keluarga vienzha alhamdulillah sekarang kehidupan keluarga om hari jauh lebih baik dan serba berkecukupan. Namanya juga orang tua pasti khawatir lah, apalagi di TV banyak berita tentang penganiayaan dan kekerasan. Tapi om hari menjelaskan insyaallah aman, soalnya yang nanti ngebawanya masih saudara om hari, ya lumayan lah untuk tambah pengalaman dan penhasilan, nanti pun kerjanya ga akan sembarangan, makanya ada training dulu selama 3 bulan dan di sarankan untuk tinggal di sana supaya bisa lebih fokus. Dan setidaknya bayar 300 ribu untuk biaya training tapi tempat tinggal plus makan sudah ditanggung di sana jadi ga perlu khawatir. Mulanya orang tua vienzha ga setuju tapi itu terserah sama vienzha, karena kakaknya sudah kerja jadi vienzha yang ditawarin. Vienzha sech jelas mau apalagi dia itu pengen bisa pergi ke Korea, Jepang sama Taiwan. Om hari ngasih waktu 3 hari untuk pikir-pikir lagi, kalo fix mau tinggal telepon aza dan besoknya langsung di jemput. Orang tua vienzha pun menyetujuinya. Ternyata benar selama 3 bulan dia di training dan di ajarin 2 bahasa sekaligus soalnya mereka juga ga tau nantinya mau di tempatin dimana, pusing sech tapi dia harus bisa dasarnya, om hari bener-bener baik, tempat tinggal plus makan juga di sediain, vienzha tinggal seatap dengan tutornya itu supaya gampang dan cepet bisanya. Tiap hari vienzha ngaih kabar agar keluarganya ga khawatir. Tutornya bernama Mas Iqbal dia lulusan universitas cukup ternama di Jepang, sekarang dia kerja sampingan jadi tutor bahasa Jepang dan mandarin, masih muda udah sukses. mas Iqbal pun dengan sabar ngajarin vienzha dan dengan kesungguhan dia akhirnya dia bisa menguasainya juga meskipun dikit-dikit. mas Iqbal pun nge ACC dia ke Jepang, semua biaya tiket, visa dan paspor di tanggung Om hari. Vienzha pun pulang ke Bandung untuk nyiapin segala sesuatunya, seminggu kemudian vienzha dan Mas Iqbal pun berangkat ke Jepang. Orang tuanya pun ikut mengantar ke bandara, sepanjang jalan Mas Iqbal menjelaskan secara umum kerjaannya dan menasehati kalau kerja di sana jelas ga bisa seenaknya da haru menjalankannya sesuai aturan. Mulanya memang akan sedikit menyusahkan tapi asal kita sungguh pasti semuanya akan baik-baik saja. Sesampainya di sana mereka langsung ke rumah yang telah disediakan, nantinya dia akan tinggal sendiri soalnya Mas Iqbal hanya akan menemani sampai dia dapat bekerja di perusahaan tersebut. Keesokkan harinya mas Iqbal langsung ke tempat Iriya teman mas Iqbal.

"Vien ini Iriya, nanti dia yang akan membantu kamu selama di sini, Iriya saya titip saudara saya!" ucap Mas Iqbal (dalam bahsa Jepang Tentunya)

"OK, kamu tidak perlu khwatir, ya semoga dia betah dan keterima!" jawab Iriya

"Terima kasih!" ucap vienzha

Berkas-berkasnya pun segera di siapkan dan alhamdulilah vienzha keteima dan keesokan harinya vienzha sudah mulai bekerja, kemana-mana dia pasti selalu bawa kamus mini soalnya terkadang dia juga masih kesulitan. karena vienzha sudah keterima, Mas Iqbal pamit pulang, semenjak itu vienzha berkomunikasi lewat internet baik itu lewat email atau chatting. Sedikit bingung dan aneh, ga gampang kerja di Jepang, meskipun gajinya lumayan tapi biaya hidup juga sesuai hampir sama kayak di Jepang tapi ada lebihnya dikit. 2 bulan pertama, vienzha belum bisa kirim uang, soalnya uangnya di pake untuk beli kebutuhan lainnya. Hari ke hari, bulan ke bulan, vienzha mulai menguasai bahasanya, bercakap-cakap dengan lancar, bahasa Mandarinnya pun terus di pelajari dan diapun sudah bisa mengontrol keuangannya dan alhamdulilah bisa ngirim uang untuk keluarganya. Pekerjaannnya pun mulai dia kuasai dan senangi karena lingkungannya pun menyenangkan. Rekan-rekan kerjanya pun mengasyikan. Kadang-kadang dia juga suka ngerasa sepi soalnya di rumah cuma sendiri, tapi setidaknya tetangganya ramah-ramah.

"Konichiwa!" ucap vienzha pada tetangganya yang sedang berjualan

"Konichiwa!" jawab mereka semua sambi tersenyum

Karena hasil kerja vienzha cukup memuaskan, jadinya dia direkomendasikan untuk jadi staf tetap administrasi perusahaan tersebut di Taiwan, vienzha pun mengambilnya, dia mencoba selama 1 tahun. tapi baru saja dia mulai menguasainya, eh tiba-tiba 2 bulan kemudian ada masalah jadi perlu pengurangn pegawai dan vienzha salah satunya. Mulai dari situ lah, kehidupan vienzha berubah, karena tidak ingin membuat keluarganya khawatir dia berusaha cari pekerjaan sana sini untuk kebutuhan hidupnya. cari pekerjaan tetp cukup susah jadinya cari yang part time, kalo kerja part time di satu tempat itu masih kurang cukup jadinya dia cari lagi, dan alhamdulillah dia dapat. tapi terkadang dia dalam sehari bisa kerja di 3 tempat. Sampe sering telat makan. Dengan usahanya itu dia masih tetep bisa ngirim uang untuk keluarganya.

"Uhm lelahnya, badan pegel-pegel semua!" ucap vienzha

"iya, lelah sekali!" jawab Mizuki

"Ok, kita bereskan lalu kita pulang, ingin cepat-cepat sampai rumah!" balas Haruka

"Kalian istirahat saja, biar kita yang membereskannya!" ucap Hiro

"Benarkah?apa tidak apa-apa?" tanya vienzha

"tidak apa-apa, istirahat lah!" jawab Hiro

"terima kasih!" ucap vienzha dan Mizuki

Akhirnya para pria yang membereskan semuanya, setelah selesai mereka pun pulang bareng naik bus kota, mereka itu pulang sekitar jam 10 malam karena lembur. begitu sampai rumah langsung istirahat soalnya besok pagi harus kerja lagi. Begitulah kesehariannya, jam 8 part time di kafe sampai jam 3 trus jam 4 part time lagi di restaurant sampai jam 10 malem, tapi itu juga ga tentu kadang pulang jam 10 tapi pernah juga sampai pulang jam 12 tergantung keadaan. Makanya di lingkungannya dia jarang bergaul karena terlalu sibuk bekerja. Saat itu vienzha kebeulan pulang jam 11, baru aja nyampe di depan rumah, tiba-tiba salah satu tetangganya tepatnya sech pembantunya meminta tolong untuk membawa anak majikannya ke RS karena dia terjatuh dan kepalanya eberdarah.Vienzha punlangsung membawanya ke RS dengan tetangganya itu. Sesampainya dia langsung ditangani dan begitu dokter keluar mereka langsung menanyakan keadaanya.

"dokter bagaimana keadaannya sekarang?" tanya vienzha

"apa kalian keluarganya?" dokter malah balik nanya

"saya pengasuhnya dok, kalo dia tetangga kami!" jawab pengasuhnya

"lalu dimana orang tuanya, apa sudah dihubungi?" tanya dokter

"sudah, tapi handphone keduanya tidak bisa tidak dihubungi, saya akan terus mencobanya dok!" jawab pengasuhnya itu

"apa ada hal yang harus dibbicarakan dokter?" tanya vienzha

"iya,tolong kalau orang tuanya sudah datang,segera menemui saya!" jawab dokter

"apa kami bisa mewakilinya dulu, setelah mereka datang saya akan memberitahukannya atau segera menemui dokter!" balas vienzha

"uhm, baiklah, silahkan ikut saya!" ucap dokter

Vienzha dan pengasuhnya pun mengikuti dokter,lalu dokter itu pun menjelaskan bahwa anak itu mengidap kanker otak stadium menengah dan sebaiknya saat ini di rawat inap untuk mengetahui kondisi dan tindakan selanjutnya. Kasihan banget masih kecil udah kena kanker otak,padahal di umurnya sekarang masa-masanya senang bermain, sekarang dia berumur 5 tahun. lalu pengasuhnya pun bilang bahwa terkadang dia sering mengeluh sakit kepala, tapi kata orang tuanya dia cuma di suruh istirahat saja, ketika pengasuh itu menyarankan uuntuk membawanya ke dokter tapi malah pengasuhnya yang dimarahi, orang tuanya selelu sibuk bekerja jadi perhatian ke anaknya kurang. Setelah menjelaskan mereka pun kembali ke ruangan anak itu, nama anak itu Chen Lin. karena kebelet jadi vienzha ke kamar mandi dulu dan pengasuhnya itu duluan ke kamar Chen Lin, ketika mau kembali ke kamar Chen lin, dia melihat ada orang yang terjatuh dari kursi roda, vienzha pun langsung membantunya tapi dia malah marah dan menyuruh vienzha pergi, dia terus berusaha naik kursi roda tapi tidak sanggup, vienzha pun membantunya duduk di kursi roda begitu selesai vienzha cuma tersenyum dan pergi karena sepertinya orangnya itu galak dan tidak mau diganggu.

"Dasar aneh, gpp khan!" ucap vienzha tersenyum dan pergi

"Dia yang aneh, disentak bukannya marah malah senyum!" ucap pasien itu

Pasien itu pun kembali ke kamarnya, keesokan harinya vienzha pamit karena dia harus kerja karena orangtuanya belum bisa dihubungi jadinya nanti diusahakan pulang kerja vienzhake RS lagi. Hampir 2 minggu orang tuanya ga bisa dihubungi, begitu bisa langsung pengasuhnya memberitahu anaknya masuk RS, dan selama 2 minggu itu vienzha dan pengasuhnya gantian jaga. Jadinya vienzha kurang isirahat, setiap pulang malam ganti baju langsung ke RS,melelahkan tapi vienzha ga tega, tiap malam pun kadang dia ga bisa tidur, pas mau keluar beli makanan, vienzha ngeliat pasien yang waktu itu lagi, kayaknya mau turun ke bawah tapi karena lift nya sedang perbaikan jadi harus lewat tangga. Pasien itu cowok y masih muda seh, kao di lihat-lihat mukanya kayak anak kecil trus lumayan cantik, eh bukan bencong ya. Vienzha pun menghampirinnya.

"Eh, kamu lagi! mau turun ke bawah?" tanya vienzha

"boleh aku bantu, bahaya kalo turun sendiri!" tanyanya lagi

"uhm baiklah kalo tidak boleh, aku pergi, hati-hati!"ucap vienzha

Ga berapa lama baru beberapa langkah, pasien itu pun memanggil

"Boleh!" ucap pasien itu

"eh, apa?" tanya vienzha

"bantu aku turun ke bawah!" jawabnya

"owh, baiklah,,pelan-pelan saja!" ucap vienzhasambil membantu pasien itu

Vienzha pun menanyakan nama dan penyakitnya, ya meskipun pasien itu cuma diem saja,juteknya, vienzha terus nanya setelah sampai di bawah vienzha kembali ke atas untuk mengambil kursi rodanya. Karena vienzha ga tega dia pun ngajak pasien itu jalan-jalan sebentar untuk beli makanan. karena cuaca malamdingin, vienzha punmemakaikan jaketnya pada pasin itu dan memberinya bapau hangat.

"makanlah, cuacanya makin dingin sebaiknya kita masuk, pakai ini!" ucap vienzha sambil memakaikan jaketnya

Vienzha pun langsung mengantarkan ke kamarnya setelah itu dia langsung kembali ke kamar Chen Lin. Setiap hari jadinya dia sering ketemu pasien itu. Kondisi Chen Lin pun makin membaik tapi sayang orang tuanya belum bisa datang katanya masih ada urusan yang belum selesai dan ga bisa ditunda, tega bener orang tuanya, segitu anaknya parah tetep aja ngurus bisnis.

"Bi, kapan aku pulang, aku ingin pulang, kenapa mamah dan papah ga datang ke sini?" tanya Chen Lin

"Mamah dan papah belum bisa datang tapi secepatnya mereka akan pulang, sudah malam sebaiknya Chen Lin cepat tidur, ingat apa kata dokter khan!" jawab pengasuhnya

"Chen Lin!" panggil vienzha dari arah belakang

"Kaka,, loh itu khan bunga yang aku mau, bagaimana kaka mendapatkannya?"tanya Chen Lin

"Waktu kakak pulang kerja, kakak ngeliat ada yang jualan bunga ini, kakak inget waktu itu Chen Lin pesen bunga ini, makany kakak beliin, Chen Lin suka?" tanya vienzha sambiul memberikan bunganya

"suka, makasih ya kak! uhm tangan kakak dingin sekali!" ucap Chen Lin

"Di luar dingin sekali tadi kakak lupa bawa jaket, udaranya makin dingin kita ke kamar aja yuk, sudah malam chen lin khan harus banyak istirahat!" balas vienzha

"Baik!" jawab chen lin

"Apa nona baik-baik saja?" tanya pengasuh itu

"Iya, saya baik-baik saja!" jawab vienzha

Mereka pun kembali ke kamar, ternyata ga jauh dari mereka, pasien itu mengamat mereka dan ga sengaja dokter lewat mengamati pasien owok itu yang bernama Asuka. Dokter itupun menghampiru Asuka tapi Asuka mengelak dan dia pun kembali ke kamarnya. Karena merasa pengap jadi vienzha tidur di luar.

"Dasar aneh, udah tau dingin malah tidur di luar!" ucap Asuka sambil menyelimutinya setelah itu dia pergi

Dokter Xiao yu hanya tersenyum melihatnya setidaknya Asuka ada sedikit perkembangan. Tiap harinya Asuka hanya melihat orang-orang yang sedang terapi, ketika sedang asyik melihat, dia tidak sadar vienzha ada di belakangnya.

"kenapa cuma diliatin aja, ga mau masuk dan nyoba?" tanya vienzha

"buat apa?" jawab Asuka

"loh ko malah balik nanya, ya jelas supaya kamu bisa jaln lagi dong, memangnya kamu mauterus pakai kursi roda, sayang banget khan!" balas vienzha

"bukan urusan kamu!" jawabnya

"oh Dokter Yu, Selamat Siang!" sapa vienzha

"Selamat siang, apa kabar Asuka?" tanya dokter Yu

"Sama seperti biasanya, aku mau istirahat, permisi!" jawab Asuka

"Dasar jutek!" ucap vienzha

"Dia memang begitu, sudah 2 bulan dia di sini semenjak kecelakaan yang ia alamai yang menyebabkan kakinya lumpuh sebagian, semenjak itu dia tidak mau melakukan terapi dan selalu bersikap dingin terkadang menyebalkan!" jawab dokter

"dokter bisa saja, tapi apa lumpuhnya itu permanen?" tanya vienzha

"tidak, hanya saja jika dia tidak mau melakukan terapi, ada kemungkinan dia akan menjadi permanen!" jawab dokter

"Lalu bagaimana dengan keluarganya?" tanyanya lagi

"Sampai saat ini keluarganya atau temannya tidak ada yang berkunjung, mungkin ini salah satu faktor dia seperti itu!" jawab dokter

"Owh, sama seperti chen Lin!" ucap vienzha

"Tapi setidaknya sekarang dia mau berkunjung kemari dan dia jauh lebih baik dari kemarin-kemarin semenjak kenal dengan kamu!" jawab dokter

"ah dokter bercanda, tapi dok dia itu terkadang memang menyebalkan!" balas vienzha sambil tersenyum

"mau masuk?" tanya dokter

"boleh kah!" jawab vienzha

"tentu saja!" ucap dokter

vienzha dan dokter pun masuk ke ruang terapi, vienzha dikenalkan pada pasien-pasien di situ, mereka semua ramah-ramah, setelah itu vienzha kembali ke kamar Chen Lin, hari itu vienzha lagi libur kerja.

"Kakak darimana kok lama?" tanya Chen Lin

"Abis beli makanan terus mampir ke kamar temen dulu, 2 kamar dari sini!" jawab vienzha

"Temen kakak memang sakit apa?" tanya Chen Lin

"Dia habis kecelakaan." jawab vienzha

"Apa aku boleh menjenguknya?" tanya Chen Lin

"Chen Lin mau menjenguknya, tapi dia sedikit menyebalkan, oia tadi dokter bilang Chen Lin lusa boleh pulang!" jawab vienzha

"asyik, akhirnya aku pulang, ka ayo kita lihat teman kakak!" ucap Chen Lin

Mereka pun segera ke kamar Asuka, untungnya Asuka ada ...

"Selamat siang ka!" ucap Chen Lin

"maaf dia ingin menjenguk, kebetulan kamarnya ada di paling ujung!" tambah vienzha

"gpp!" jawab Asuka

"aku denger temennya kaka sakit jadi aku ingin jenguk, kadaan kakak gimana, katanya kakak abis kecelakaan ya!" ucap Chen Lin

"gpp ko, makasih ya sudah mau menjenguk!" jaawab Asuka sedikit tersenyum

"di sini sayang kurang seger, ah tunggu sebentar ya!" ucap Chen Lin

"Chen Lin mau kemana?" tanya vienzha sambil mengejarnya

"Aku mau kasih bunga ini, biar temen kakak cepat sembuh, ini untuk kakak supaya cepet sembuh dan ga kesepian, kata kakak lusa aku boleh pulang, jadi kakak cepat sembuh supaya bisa cepat keluar dari sini!" jawab Chen Lin

"Makasih ya Chen Lin, kamu baik sekali!" ucap Asuka

"Chen lin, waktunya pemeriksaan, ayo!" ucap pengasuhnya

"ia, dadah kakak, cepat sembuh ya!" ucap chen Lin

chen lin melakukan pemeriksaan ditemani pengasuhnya. Sementara vienzha masih mengobrol dengan Asuka . . .

"Kenapa kamu ga mau terapi?" tanya vienzha

"untuk apa?" jawabnya

"ya supaya kamu bisa jalan lagi lah!" balas vienzha

"Apa gunanya aku bisa jalan lagi, orang-orang pun tidak ada yang menginginkan aku sembuh!" jawabnya

"Ada anak kecil berumur 5 tahun, dia divonis mengidap kanker otak stadium menegah, orang tuanya selalu sibuk bekerja bahkan sampai anaknya RS pun mereka lebih mementingkan bisnis mereka, selama di RS dia cuma ditemani pengasuhnya dan tetangganya, begitu dia tahu penyakitnya dia langsung menangis tanpa henti, ketika penyakitnya kambuh dia hanya bisa menangis kesakitan tapi dari ke hari dia mulai mengerti dan ceria seperti biasanya, banyak orang yang sakit ingin sembuh, banyak oranh yang tidak bisa berjalan ingin berjalanbahkan berlari, mereka berusaha sekuat tenaga untuk sembuh, mereka tidak pernah menyerah, masih banyak orang yang jauh lebih menderita dari kamu tapi mereka tidak menyerah, semakin kamu tidak mau menggunakan kaki kamu, ada kemungkinan kamu akan lumpuh permanen, cobalah terapi itu, semua pasiennya ramah-ramah!" jelas vienzha

"oea, letakan bunganya di dekat jendela agar terkena sinar matahari!" tambahnya

vienzha pun kembali menemani Chen Lin, 2 hari kemudian akhirnya Chen Lin boleh pulang, sebelum dia pulang dia ingin menjenguk Asuka lagi, sayangnya saat itu Asuka masih tertidur jadinya Chen Lin hanya bisa melihatnya dan memberinya sepucuk surat.

"Kakak cepat sembuh, bunga ini untuk kakak, jaga baik-baik ya, hari ini aku sudah boleh pulang, tadinya mau pamit, tapi kakak masih tidur makanya aku tulis surat ini, jangan menyerah, kakak pasti sembuh!!! dadah .............."

Chen Lin

Semenjak itu vienzha jarang ketemu, paling kalau sempat dia hanya mengirim bunga itu pun dititipkan, seminggu kemudian orangtuanya Chen Lin datang, mereka langsung mengatur pengobatan untuk anaknya di luar negeri dan dari situlah vienzha tidak pernah ketemu laggi. tapi sebulan kemudian vienzha pindah dan itu terakhir kalinya dia ngeliat Asuka. vienzha pun harus mencari kerja lagi, kali ini dia pindah ke kota alias ke Taipeh, dia kerja di sebuah kafe lagi dan sebagai freelance dia jadi pengasuh anak tetangganya. jauh melelahkan dari sebelumnya tapi dia lebih punya waktu luang dibandingkan sebelumnya. hari ke hari, bulan ke bulan, ga kerasa dah hampir 3 tahun dia di luar negeri, karena ketekunan dan kesabarannya alhamdulillah kehidupan vienzha sudah bertaraf enengah. Meskipun sudah pindah tapi masih sering komunikasi dengan Mizuki, Haruka dan Hiro. selain kerja ya vienzha pun sambil iseng-iseng cuci mata soalnya banya cowok-cowok lucu dan ganteng. Lumayan lah, hari itu pas pulang ada yang menghampiri vienzha, cowok, lucu, tinggi, cakep lah.

"Hai, kamu kerja di kafe ini dah berapa lama, ko waktu itu aku ga pernah liat kamu?" tanyanya

"Baru 2 minggu." jawab vienzha

"oea kenalin aku Xia Tian, nama kamu siapa?" tanya Xia tian

"Vienzha!" jawabnya

Mulai dari hari itu vienzha dan Xia Tian makian dekat, kebetulan Xia Tian pelanggan kafe itu. Mungkin karena sering bareng, makanya Xia Tian mulai menyukainya dan dia nekat menyatakan perasaanya dan ienzha pun menerimanya. hari-hari vienzha pun semakin cerah, meskipun harus kerja keras tapi dia senang karena ada yang selalu mendukungnya. Setiap bulannya mereka merayakan hari jadi tapi ketika menginjak bulan ke-5, Xia Tian mulai berubah, sikap dan perhatiannya pun berubah. Mulanya vienzha mengerti kalo mereka ga bisa merayakan karena katanya Xia Tian ada kerjaan yang mendesak. Hari ke hari, Xia Tian melupakan hal-hal kecil yang seharusnya dia yang paling ingat. Bulan ke-6, vienzha ngajak ngerayain hari jadinya dan Xia tian menyanggupinya.

"Hari Sabtu nanti, kita rayain hari jadi kita gimana?" tanya vienzha

"Baiklah, di tempat biasa jam 7 malam ya!" jawab xia tian

"OK, kalo gitu aku kerja dulu, sampai ketemu hari sabtu!" ucap vienzha

Vienzha pun kembali kerja, dia ga sabar nunggu hari sabtu, rekan kerjanya hanya meledeknya. Vienzha pun membuat bolu seperti biasanya, karena saking senegnya vienzha ga sadar kalo dia di amati oleh Asuka.. Hari sabtu pun tiba, vienzha nunggu di tempat biasa jam 7 kurang, dia menunggu dengan hati berbunga, 1 jam, 2 jam dia masiih sabar menunngu sampai ada seseorang yang menghampirinya....

"Kamu mau mati kedinginan ya, malem-malem malah pakai jaket tipis!" ucap cowok itu

"eh, Asuka!" ucap vienzha kaget melihat Asuka disampingnya

"Kenapa sebegitu kagetnya,,aneh!" jawab Asuka

"bagaimana kamu bisa ada di sini, bukannya kamu mau ...."

sebelum vienzha menyelesaikannya Asuka sudah memotongnyna.

"Aku tinngal di kota ini, ga nyangka ketemu orang aneh lagi!" jawab Asuka

"eh, aku aneh, kamu yang aneh! tapisejak kapan kamu bisa jalan?" tanya vienzha

"sejak 5 bulan lalu, lau sedang apa kamu di sini kayak anak hilang aja!" jawab Asuka

"Aku sedang menunggu orang tapi ......"

vienzha terkejut ketika dia melihat Xia Tian dengan wanita lain, lalu dia teringat temannya kalo Xia Tian sudah selingkuh, lalu dia menghubungi Xia Tian tapi dia telah berbohong, lalu vienzha memutuskan hubungannya dengan Xia Tian karena percuma dilanjutkan juga.

"Kakak dimana sekarang?" tanya vienzha

"Uhm, dirumah, kenapa!" jawab Xia Tian

"kakak sekarang lupa hari apa?" tanyanya lagi

"sekarang hari sabtu khan, memangnya sekarang kamu lagi dimana?"jawab Xia Tian

"aku, aku lagi di terminal, ka aku mau ngobrol apa kita bisa ktemu sekarang?" tanya vienzha

"sekarang ga bisa, maaf ya, di telepon saja!" jawab Xia Tian

"oh, lebih baik kita putus saja, aku rasa kita sudah ga cocok lagi, kaka juga sudah ngebohongin aku, bahkan kakak lupa janji kita sekarang!" ucap vienzha

"Soal itu,...." omongan Xia Tian langsung dipotong

"Jadi percuma kalo dilanjutin juga, terima kasih karena kaka sudah ngasih banyak kenangan indah, sampai jumpa!" lanjutnyna sambil nutup teleponnya.

"Kamu gpp?" tanya Asuka

"Gpp, mau nemenin makan kue, sayang kalo dibuang!" ajak vienzha

"Eh ..."ucapnya

"Itu teman kamu, ajak saja makin banyak makin rame!" jawab vienzha

"aku boleh ikut, apa tidak apa-apa?" tanya Xiu

"tidak, ayo!" jawab vienzha

mereka pun pulang ke rumah, dan memakan bolunya dengan nikmat, sepertinya Xiu dan Asuka menyukainya. Semenjak itu vienzha jadi lebih sering bareng Asuka dan Xiu, perasaannya pun mulai terobati. Vienzha baru dapat kabar katanya kakaknya mau nikh 2 minggu lagi, jelas vienzha senang sekali, tapi mungkin vienzha datangnya 1 minggu sebelum acara karena dia ga bisa ijin terlalu lama. Keluarganya pun memahaminya, dia pun mempersiapkan segala sesuatunya.

"Vien, aku dengar katanya kakak kamu mau nikah ya, selamat ya!" ucap Xiao yu

"iya, makasih, kira-kira bos ngijinin ga ya, soalnya aku mau ijin 1 minggu?" tanya vienzha

"coba saja, kayaknya diijinin dech, boss ada tuh, sana! " jawab Xiao Yu

"OK, huft, aq ke sana dulu ya!" balas vienzha

Vienzha pun menemui bosnya untuk membicarakan perijinannya.

"Bos, aku mau minta ijin selama seminggu, boleh tidak bos!" ucap vienzha

"seminggu, memangnya kamu mau kemana?" tanya bosnya

"kakak mau nikah, makanya aku mau ijin seminggu!" jawab vienzha

"Benarkah? memang acaranya dimana?" tanya bosnya

"di Indonesia, kebetulan udah hampir 3 tahun aku ga pulang, makanya aku mau minta ijin seminggu!" jawab vienzha

"apa seminggu cukup, ya sudah aku kasih 15 hari, apa itu cukup?" tanya bosnya

"15 hari? uhm tidak perlu bos, 15 hari terlalu lama, 10 hari saja itu sudah cukup!" jawab vienzha

"ok, semuanya bisa diatur, kapan kamu berangkat?" tanya bosnya

"minggu depan!" jawab vienzha

Ya untuk ngeganti jadinya selama seminggu ini, vienzha lembur, setelah membeli barang-barang yang dibutuhkan, vienzha langsung mengepaknya. Asuka dan Xiu pun membantu dan rencananya mereka berdua ingin ikut ke Indonesia, ya sekalian buat dokumenter githu, apalagi adatnya khan berbeda. Akhirnya mereka berdua pun ikut pulang ke Indonesia, keluarganya sudah memberi tahu bahwa mereka pindah ke Jawa tapi unstuk acaranya di Jakarta, vienzha pun telah memberitahu kalo temannya akan ikut, sebelum vienzha pergi bos dan rekan-rekannya memberikan bingkisan untuk kakaknya. Sesampainya di Jakarta vienzha langsung naik bus, kayaknya iini pertama kalinya mereka naik bus dengan desak-desakan. Akhirnya sampai juga di rumah, semuanya menyambut kedatangan vienzha, jelas vienzha sangat senang karena hampir 3 tahun dia ga ketemu, apalagi sekarang semua saudaranya pun ada. Keluarganya pun rada bingung menyambut Asuka dan Xiu ditambah cuma vienzha yang ngerti, mereka juga kadang bantu-bantu, kadang juga suka di ajak ke pasar.

"rame banget di sini, baru kali ini aku pergi ke pasar kayak githu, meskipun disana ada tapi ga kayak disini!" ucap Xiu

"tapi maaf beginilah rumah aku, ya mungkinlebih besar dari rumah kalian, ditambah kalian juga tidurnya ga dikasur, makan juga ga kayak biasanya!" jawab vienzha

"tapi lebih nyaman, ini baru disebut keluarga!" balas Asuka

"he,sebaiknya kalian istirahat soalnya besok kan acaranya, besok maaf ya merepotkan!"ucap vienzha

"gpp, nyantai aja! kebetulan cape nih!" jawab Xiu

Mereka pun masuk ke dalam, sebelumnya vienzha udah ngasih tahu kalo besok harus bangun pagi untuk persiapan, bienzha pun di dandani jadi pager ayu tapi karena ribet kalo disanggul jadinya cuma dilinting-linting ke atas githu, lau orangtuanya vienzha pun menyuruh vienzha untuk membangunkan Asuka dan Xiu, pas diketuk ternyata mereka udah rapih dengan pakaian resmi jadi tambah cakep, mereka berdua pun kaget melihat vienzha pakai kebaya plus high heels. Mereka pun segera bersiap-siap karena acara seserahannya mau di mulai. Asuka dan Xiu pun sudah mengambil tempatnya masing-masing, dari awal ampe akhir mereka rekam. Setelah Ijab Kabul selesai, para tamu bersalaman, pas foto keluarga, Asuka dan Xiu pun diajak turut serta, acaranya sampe jam 5, cape dan pegal. Alhamdulillah semuanya lancar. Keesokan harinya, vienzha, Asuka dan Xiu jalan-jalan bareng adik dan saudara plus keponakan vienzha, karena vinzha cuma ngambil ijin 10 hari jadinya lusa dia harus ke sana lagi. ga kerasa mereka harus pulang, baju dan oleh-oleh udah disiapin, mereka pun diantar sampai bandara. Orang tua Vienzha dan keluarganya pun meyukai Asuka dan Xiu, bahkan mereka mengira salh satu dari mereka adalah pacarnya. meskipun cuma 10 hari tapi Asuka dan xiu mendapat banyak pelajaran yang berharga. bahkan mereka berdua ingin ikut kumpul bareng lagi.

"vien hati-hati ya di sana, inget jaga kesehatan!" ucap mamahnya

"iya, Xiu dan Asuka titip vienzha ya!" tambah bapanya

"iya!" jawab keduanya dengan b.indonesia tapi masih kaku

Mereka pun pamitan dan langsung ke pesawat, begitu di pesawat vienzha sedikit menagis, dan mereka berdua memakluminya. Sesampainya di Taipeh, pekerjaan sudah menanti dan kembali ke rutinitas semula. baru aja dia menikmati kesenangannya, dia mendapat kabar buruk kalo Xia Tian mendapat kecelakaan yang cukkup parah, sekarang dia di rawat di RS, sdangkan pacar barunya tidak dapat bertahan karena terlalu banyak mengeluarkan darah, vienzha mendapat kabar itu dari orang tuanya, vienzha pun segera ke RS bersama orang tuanya Xia Tian, padahal mingggu depan rencananya mereka akan menikah. Luka Xia Tian cukup parah dan belum sadarkan diri, vienzha terlihat sangat syok. Pulang kerja vienzha mampir ke RS untuk menjaganya, ya meskipun dia telah menyakiti hatinya tapi dia tetap belum bisa sepenuhnya melupakannya. Asuka dan Xiu mencari ke tempat kerjanya tapi dia udah ga ada, rekannya ngasih tau kalo dia di RS, mereka berdua pun segera ke RS, karena menjaga Xia Tian dia terlalu kelelahan dan makan ga teratur. Pas vienzha mau kembali ke kamar Xia Tian, kepalanya pusing dan hampir aja terjatuh, tapi untungnya Asuka langsung menahannya.

"Kamu gpp vien?" tanya Xiu

"eh, kalian! aku gpp cuma sedikit pusing aja, maaf!" jawab vienzha

"dasar bodoh!" ucap Asuka

"eh!" jawab vienzha bingung

"ngerawat orang sih boleh aja tapi jangan nyiksa diri gini, yang ada malah kamu yang akan sakit, tiap hari kurang istirahat, makan ga teratur, dasar bodoh!" balas Asuka

"iya, liat muka kamu keliatan cape dan lusuh! Badan kamu juga panas, sebaiknya kamu pulang dulu, nanti kalo udah baikan kamu ke sini lagi!" ucap Xiu

"aku gpp ko, tenang aja!" jawab vienzha

"vienzha, Xia Tian sudah sadar!" ucap ibunya

Vienzha pun langsung ke kamar Xia Tian, tapi baru aja ngeliat sebentar, xia Tian hanya mengucapkan maaf, lalu kondisinya kritis dan kali ini ga bisa bertahan, dokter pun sudah berusaha tapi Tuhan berkehendak lain, ibunya menangis histeris, vienzha hampir saja terjatuh lagi, tapi langsung di tahan Asuka dan Xiu. Vienzha menahan air matanya, lalu Xiu memberi isyarat agar Asuka membantu menenangkannnya dan membawanya keluar, setelah dipastikan Xia Tian tidak dapat tertolong lagi, air matanya ga bisa ditahan lagi, keesokan harinya vienzha memaksakan diri untuk menghadiri pemakaman Xia Tian. Asuka dan Xiu pun menemaninya, setelah selesai pemakaman, vienzha sambil menahan sakit kepalanya langsung pulang ke rumah, Xiu menyarankan untuk berobat soalnya bdannya panas sekali dan mukanya juga pucat, tapi vienzha ga mau, mereka pun membawanya pulang, mungkin karena udah ga kuat, veinzha pun pingsan, Xiu langsung menelpon dokter.

"dokter, bagaimana keadaanya?" tanya Xiu

"dia hanya kelelahan dan kurang nutrisi ditambah dia sepertinya sedih berat yang membuatnya banyak pikiran!" jawab Dokter

"teman dekatnya baru meninggal dok, tapi dia tidak apa-apa?" tanya Xiu

"tidak, sebaiknya dia banyak istirahat dan makan sayur-sayuran, dan ini obatnya, kalo selama 3 hari belum ada perubahan hubungi saya!" jawab dokter

"baik dok, terima kasih!" ucap Xiu

"kalo begitu saya permisi dulu!" jawab dokter

"akku tebus obatnya duu, kamu jaga dia, jangan lupa sambil di kompres! " ucap Xiu

"eh, kenapa aku?" tanya Asuka

"sudah, sana jangan banyak tanya, aku pergi dulu!" jawab Xiu

Asuka pun mengompresnya, badan vienzha panas sekali tapi alhamdulilah setelah minum obat, keadaannya makin membaik dan dia pun udah mulai kerja lagi setelah beberapa hari istirahat. Selama beberapa hari vienzha tak bertemu Asuka karena dia ada urusan penting, hpnya juga ga bisa dihubungi dan kebetulan Xiu pun ada kerjaan di luar kota jadi ga bisa nemenin. Suatu hari pas mau pulang, vienzha ngeliat anak kecil sekitar 6 tahunandi pinggir jalan, kalo diliat dari penampilan sech kayaknya dia kesasar, vienzha pun menghampirinya mereka ngobrol-ngobrol, katanya sech dia itu nyari kakaknya, karena udah malem, vienzha pun membawanya pulang kayaknya dia juga kecapean, vienzha pun menyuruhnya dia makan dulu terus istirahat, besok baru dibicarain lagi. Tadinya vienzha mau bantu nyari tapi dia ga punya foto kakaknya, mau pake jasa polisi tapi dia ga mau soalnya dia kabur dari rumah, waduch-waduch umur 6 tahun udah maen kabur-kaburan. Sejak itu dia tinggal bareng vienzha, namanya Miyuki. karena vienzha harus kerja jadinya Miyuki ditinggal di rumah, tapi makanan udah disiapin dan Miyuki juga ngebantu vienzha pas ngasuh anak tetangga. Hampir seminggu Miyuki tinggal bareng vienzha, Asuka pun sudah kembali, pas Asuka datang ke rumah vienzha, dia kaget begitu melihat adiknya ada bersama vienzha sedang main dengan anak yang lainnya. Miyuki yang melihat kakanya langsung berteriak dan memeluknya, vienzha juga bingung.

"kakak .....!" teriak Miyuki

"Miyuki, syukurlah! gimana kamu bisa ada di sini?" tanya ASuka

"kakak itu yang nolongin aku dan dia juga ngebolehin aku tinggal di sini!" jawab Miyuki

"untuk apa kamu nyari kakak? kabur dari rumah, kalo terjadi sesuatu padamu gimana, mereka mencari kamu kemana-mana bahkan sampai lapor polisi, apa yang kamu pikirkan, kamu ini baru 6 tahun!" ucap Asuka

"Asuka, pelankan suaramu,banyak anak-anak!Miyuki dia kakak Miyuki?" tanya vienzha

"iya!" jawab Miyuki

"maaf,Miyuki ikut kakak sekarang, kita pulang!" ucap Asuka

"aku ga mau pulang, aku mau tinggal sama kakak, kakak bohong waktu itu kakak bilang mau pulang tapi kakak ga pulang-pulang, kakak jahat!"teriak Miyuki sambil lari ke kamar

"Biar dia tenang dulu, masuklah dulu,ga baik diliat anak-anak!" ucap vienzha

Asuka pun masuk, setelah anak-anak pulang baru mereka membicarakannya, Asuka pun memberitahukan orang tuanya bahwa Miyuki sudah ditemukan dan mereka pun segera menyusul kemari. vienzha pun membujuk Miyuki untuk keluar dan dia berhasil. Asuka pun minta maaf karena dia sangat khawatir. Beberapa jam kemudian orang tuanya datang, tapi sikap mereka kurang ramah, begitu datang mereka malah memarahi dan memaki vienzha, mereka malah menuduh vienzha yang menyembunyikan anaknya ditambah ketika Miyuki dijak pulang dia ga mau, mereka tambah memfitnahnya, Asuka yang kesal mendengarnya langsung membela vienzha.

"oh jadi selama ini kamu yang sudah menyembunyikan anak kami, dan kamu juga sudah menghasut anak kami agar tidak mau pulang!" ucap ibunya

"cukup, kalian tetap ga berubah ya, masih ga tau terima kasih!" ucap Asuka

"apa maksud kamu? apa gini balas jasa kamu terhadap kami!"tanya ayahnya

"balas jasa? tau apa kalian tentang balas jasa, apa kalian ga berpikir jika ga ada dia apa yang akan terjadi pada Miyuki, mungkin dia masih terluntang lantung di jalanan!" balas Asuka

"Asuka,aku gpp,mereka hanya khawatir!"ucap vienzha

"diam kamu, jadi Asuka pun telah kamu hasut!" jawab ibunya sambil nampar vienzha

Asuka yang melihatnya langsung marah, Miyuki hanya menagis, vienzha pun membiarkan mereka untuk bicara, sementara vienzha ke dapur untuk membuatkan minuman dan menyuruh Miyuki diam di dalam kamar. Tapi niat baik vienzha tetep ga disambut hangat, teh panas yang dia buatkan malah disiram ke tangan vienzha, galak bener nie orang, jelas vienzha kepanasan. Asuka pun langsung mengobati vienzha tanpa memperdulikan orang tuanya. Miyuki pun langsung keluar kamar setelah mendengar vienzha berteriak. Setelah diobati, Asuka meminta Miyuki untuk pulang bersama orang tuanya, kalo ada waktu Asuka akan mengajak Miyuki keluar jalan-jalan bareng vienzha juga Xiu. Setelah dibujuk akhirnya miyuki pun mau meskipun wajahnya terlihat sangat sedih. meskipun begitu orang tuanya ga merasa bersalah dan mereka langsung pergi githu aja. Asuka sangat kesal, tapi vienzha menahanya karena bagaimanapun juga mereka adalah orang tuanya. Karena lukanya harus diperban jadi pekerjaannya sedikit terganggu dan Asuka merasa bersalah karena luka itu dan alhasil dia terpaksa dipecat karena ada pengurangan pegawai. Vienzha terlihat sangat sedih, tapi dia memutuskan untuk istirahat dulu sampai lukanya sembuh. Jadinya vienzha cuma kerja jadi pengasuh aja. Suatu hari ibunya Asuka datang lagi, ternyata masih aja sama , kali ini ibunya ga dateng sendiri dia dateng sama cewek cantik, tinggi ya oklakh, ternyata ibunya mau marah-marah lagi ditambah dia nyuruh vienzha untuk menjauhi Asuka karena sebentar lagi dia akan menikah dengan cewek pilihan ibunya, yang bikin vienzha sakit hati, ibunya udah marah-marah, nyentak, eh ditambah dia juga melemparkan uang ke muka vienzha. Lalu mereka pun pergi tapi vienzha jadi marah dia ngerasa harga dirinya dijatuhkan, lalu dia mengambil semua uang yang berserakan dan mengembalikan uangnya, emangnya cuma mereka aja yang bisa marah dan ternyata yang menyebabkan vienzhadipecat adalah ibunya Asuka. Benar-benar menjengkelkan. Tapi vienzha ga mau disebut penakut, dia hanya menganggapnya angin lalu, meskipun begitu vienzha ga memberi tahu Asuka dan Xiu. Asuka dan xiu pun membantu vienzha mencari pekerjaan, ya bisa diibaratkan rumah vienzha alah rumah kedua merekka. Suatu hari pas mereka pulang dari jalan ada yang mau menabrak vienzha tapi keburu ditarik Asuka tapi malah Asuka yang tertabrak, vienzha sangat syok dan merasa sangat bersalah, lalu mereka segera membawanya ke RS, orang tuanya yang mengetahiu Asuka kecelakaan jelas marah besar dan kali ini memaki vienzha abis-abisan dan mengusirnya, Xiu pun menjelaskan tapi tetep aja ga dianggap, malah menyuruh Xiu untuk mengusirnya. Hati vienzha jelas tambah sakit, malam itu sedang turun salju, vienzha yang merasa sedih dan bersalah terus berjalan dan dia duduk termenung di taman meskipun dia kedinginan tapi dia ga peduli, Xiu pun mencarinya tapi ga ketemu, lalu dia menunggu di rumahnya pun ga dateng-dateng hampir 2 jam dia nunggu tapi ga ada juga, lalu dia pun mencoba mencarinya lagi tapi hasilnya nihil, karena semakin dingin dia pun kembali ke RS. Karena selama beberapa hari tidak sadarkan diri, orangtuanya pun membawanya kembali untuk di rawat oleh Dr. Yu. Selama 2 hari, vienzha hanya termenung dia pun libur jadi pengasuh. Xiu tetap memberi kabar pada vienzha keadaan Asuka dan dia meminta maaf karena dia belum bisa menjenguknya karena dia ikut menjaga Asuka. Setidaknya vienzha sedikit tenang mendengar kabar dari Xiu. Asuka pun telah sadar, dari hari ke hari kondisinya makin membaik dan untungnya tidak ada luka yang parah. Orangtuanya cukup kaget, karena banyak pasien yang telah mengenal Asuka dan betapa kagetnya lagi mendengar bahwa Asuka pernah dirawat disini karena kecelakaan yang membuatnya lumpuh tapi untungnya ada vienzha yang tanpa sengaja bertemu dan memberikan semangat untuk terus berusaha. Dokter pun menjelaskan keadaan Asuka yang sebelumnya sampai dia bisa bangkit lagi mskipun Asuka jutek tapi banyak pasien yang menyukainya. Alhamdulilah ga disangka vienzha dapat panggilan lagi dari perusahaan yang sebelumnya karena tempat tinggalnya jauh jadi dia memutuskan untuk pindah lagi dan dia pun tidak memberi tahu siapapun tentang kepindahannya termasuk Asuka dan Xiu. Sebulan kemudian, setelah Asuka sembuh total dia kembali lagi ke TAipeh tadinya mau kasih surprise untuk vienzha tapi sayng mereka terlambat vienzha udah pindah. Tapi masalah pernikahan Asuka, orang tuanya tetap ingin menjodohkan dengan anak rekan kerjanya. Tapi Asuka menolak keras perjodohan ini, Xiu dan Asuka terus mencari, meskipun bisa menghuhbungi tapi vienzha ga mau mengatakan dimana dia tinggal, dia juga sudah memaafkan orang tuanya juga dia mendoakan pernikahan Asuka dengan cewek pilihan orang tuanya. Entahlah tapi kayaknya vienzha mulai menyukai Asuka tapi dia ga mau perasaannya terlampau jauh. Asuka pun sekarang kerja di bidang desain grafis, sedangkan Xiu kerja di bidang broadcasting. Sementara vienzha di bagian administrasi tapi dia nyampingan juga terima tender-tender kecil githu. Setahun kemudian, kebetulan hari itu dia dapat tiket VIP nonton konser Super Junior dari temannya, rame banget dech, cakep-cakep pula orangnya, keren lah, acara konser berakhir jam 10 malam, pas mau pulang tanpa sengaja dia ketemu dengan Asuka di bus. Asuka terlihat keren dengan kaos plus jaket ya setelan sporty lah, mereka pun ngobrol-ngobrol tapi sedikit canggung.

"Lama ga jumpa, apa kabar?" tanya vienzha

Asuka ga ngejawab dia hanya diam dan mandangin vienzha dengan tatapan sedih. vienzha pun jadi bingung, udah hampir setahun ga ketemu dan 6 bulan terakhir putus komunikasi. Jadi serba salah, apalagi kalo liat tatapan dingin matanya. Tapi vienzha mencoba mencairkan suasana.

"He, mau sampai kapan ngeliatin kayak gitu serem tau,mana diem aja kayak mayat hidup!" ucap vienzha gurau

Asuka tetep diem aja, ga lama vienzha dapet telepon ternyata dari Haruka, vienzha jadi khawatir karena Haruka menelepon dengan suara terengah-engah seperti sedang dikejar orang, ternyata benar dia sedang dikejar para preman yang dulu sempat mencelakainya. Haruka adalah rekan kerjanya dulu, dia juga pindah dan ternyata sekarang mereka jadi rekan dan mereka pun tinggal satu atap, dan yang lebih baiknya setelah lama ga ketemu sekarang Haruka sudah menjadi mualaf, sewaktu bermasalh dengan preman-preman itu ada seorang bapak-bapak yang menolong, dia dirawat bersama keluarganya. Haruka melihat setiap hari mereka ibadah 5 x yang disebut sholat, keluarga itu hidupnya kurang berkecukupan tapi terlihat sangat harmonis, tanpa sadar selama dia tinggal disana dia ingin mempelajarinya, setelah yakin dan mantap, akhirnya Haruka memutuskan untuk menjadi mualaf, keluarga itu pun mengajari Haruka dengan sabar, 3 bulan kemudian Haruka mendapat panggilan kerja dan alhamdulilah dia diterima sampai sekarang dia tiap bulannya mengirimkan sebagian gajinya untuk keluarga itu ya meskipun tidak seberapa. Ketika vienzha ketemu Haruka di kantor, Haruka langsung mengajak vienzha ke rumahnya dan tinggal bersama kebetulan tempat tinggalnya dekat dengan kantor, lagipula nantinya biaya bisa ditanggung berdua. vienzha pun setuu, pekerjaan mereka bagi 2, ya pokoknya bagi rata dech. Ketika di bus vienzha melihat Haruka di pinggir jala, dengan terburu-buru vienzha pun turun, mulanya Asuka ga akan turun tiba-tiba dari arah belakang Asuka menyusul. vienzha pun segera menghampiri Haruka, begitu Asuka mendekat dia kaget melihat orang yang di depannya adalah kakaknya sendiri yang sudah lama pergi dari rumah. keduanya pun sama terejutnya tapi cuma vienzha yang kebingungan. Lalu dari arah seberang, para preman itu terus berlari semakin dekat. Haruka sudah kelelahan dan wajahnya pun terluka, vienzha pun ngebantu Haruka untuk menepi tapi Asuka malah menghajar satu per satu, vienzha pun nyoba narik Asuka tapi malah lengannya yang kena pukulan mereka, Asuka pun mendorong vienzha dan menghajar mereka, sementara Haruka sudah kecapean, kebetulan di situ ada kantor polisi, vienzha pun lari dan segera memanggil mereka, akhirnya semua preman itu ditangkap polisi, vienzha dan Asuka membantu memapah haruka, sesampainya di rumah Haruka dan Asuka langsung diobati, Haruka pun menjelaskan bahwa Asuka ini adlah adiknya, hampir 2 tahun Haruka pergi dari rumah, sejak itu dia ga pernah komunikasi lagi dengan keluarganya sampai sekarang dia ketemu dengan Asuka.vienzha pun ke kamar setelah membuatkan minuman untuk mereka, karena vienzha ingin membiarkan mereka bicara. Tanpa sadar vienzha ketiduran, akhirnya Asuka nginep malam itu. Selama vienzha dan Haruka tinggal bareng mereka sering curhat, ternyata orang yang mereka omongin itu, Asuka. karena sudah tau yang dimaksud itu Asuka makin nyambung sekarang, Haruka pun mengucapkan selamat karena adiknya itu mau menikah, tapi Asuka langsung menyangkal, dia menolak perjodohan itu, Asuka menanyakan kenapa Haruka bisa tahu, Haruka pun menjawab dia tau dari vienzha.

"vienzha?bagaimana dia tahu??" tanya Asuka

"ibu mendatanginya dan seperti biasanya ibu memakinya, dan ibu juga menyuruhnya untuk pergi ninggalin kamu sambil memberikan uang tapivienzha menolaknya dan tidak menghiraukan ibu, sampai kamu kecelakaan dia merasa bersalah dan ibu mengusirnya bahkan menghinanya, menurutmu apa yang telah ibu lakukan sampai dia mau pergi, karena dia bukan typical orang yang suka menghindari masalah jika bukan karena suatu hal!" jelas Haruka

"aku tidak tahu, yang aku ingat begitu sadar, aku ada di RS dokter Yu." jawab Asuka

"ya sudahlah, sudah malam, istirahalah!besok kita bicarakan lagi." ucap Haruka

Mereka pun istirahat, keesokan harinya seperti biasa setiap hari Sabtu vienzha kerja part time, setelah dia menyiapkan sarapan dia langsung pergi, jadi pas mereka bangun vienzha sudah berangkat. vienzha krja dari jam 8 sampai jam 6 sore, ya cape juga sech, sejak itu kalo ga ada job, Asuka tinggal bareng mereka, kadang Xiu juga ikut nginep kalo ga ada job. Semua permasalahn sudah mulai clear dan seperti dulu lagi, meskipun cape tapi vienzha betah coz bos dan pegawainya baik-baik dan humoris jadi ga boring. Kadang bosnya sering ngajak jala-jalan untuk refreshing, terus tiap minggu kunjungan ke rumah-rumah gitu, nah berhubung vienzha pegawai baru jadi belum ditentukan kapan kunjungannya.

"Pagi bbos!" ucap vienzha

"pagi juga ndut!" (ketawa) jawab bosnya

Hari itu kafe lumayan rame, seperti biasa semuanya kerja dengan semangat dan penuh senyuman ya meskipun ada beberapa tamu yang menyebalkan. sekitar jam 5 sore lumayan kosong, si bos ,emang sudah biasa kalo lagi kosong suka gabung sama anak-anak, mereka pun ngobrol-ngobrol, lalu tiba-tiba si bos ngajak minggu ini kumpul di rumah vienzha aja soalnyadi rumah Xiao Lu lagi ada renovasi, ya vienzha otomatis harus ijin dulu sama Haruka dan keesokan harinya Haruka menyetujui dan hari minggunya mereka semua datang ke rumah vienzha, ya meskipun kecil tapi nyaman, sehari sebelumnya vienzha mempersiapkan semuanya mulai dari makanan pokok sampai cemilannya, Haruka dan Asuka pun ikut membantu, mereka sambil bercanda jadinya pas buat bolu mukanya pada belepotan semua. Keesokan harinya sekitar jam 10an mereka datang, karena ada urusan Haruka dan Asuka pergi dulu, mereka pun ngobrol-ngobrol segala diomongin, pokoknya saat itu ga ada status bos atau karyawan, semuanya makan bareng, kayaknya masakan vienzha enak soalnya semuanya lahap, sekitar jam 4an mereka mau pamit tapi Haruka dan Asuka belum datang.

"maaf ya jadi merepotkan."ucap bosnya

"nyantai aja bos, tapi maaf cuma seadanya!" jawab vienzha

"oiya katanya kamu tinggal bertiga pada kemana?" tanya Xiao Lu

"mereka ada urusan, harusnya sech udah pulang, mungkin masih di jalan!" balas vienzha

"oh ya udah kita pamit duluan ya, salam aja buat mereka!" ucap yang lainnya

Ketika membuka pintu, mereka baru pulang, mereka pun pamitan tapi begitu kagetnya ketika mereka berdua melihat bosnya vienzha, begitu juga sebaliknya yang lainnya pun pulang duluan. ketika mereka berdua masuk tiba-tiba mereka langsung memeluk bos vienzha jelas vienzha bingung, dan itu pertama kalinya vienzha melihat 3 cowok sekaligus nangis, setelah tenag mereka pun bercerita. Ternyata bos vienzha adalah ayah dari mereka berdua, tapi kata ibunya ayahnya itu sudah meninggal padahal mereka itu bercerai, hak asuh didapatkan ibunya, hampir 15 tahun mereka tidak betemu ayahnya, setelah bercerai ibunya pindah rumah dan setahun kemudian ibunya menikah lagi, semenjak itu kehidupan mereka berubah, Haruka yang tidak suak ibunya menikah lagi, lalunmemutuskan untuk pergi dari rumah, ayahnya yang mencari alamat mereka tidak ketemu dan sampai suatu hari dia ketemu Om Hari, singkat cerita ayahnya mereka bekerja sama dengan Om hari dan mas iqbal sampai akhirnyadia bisa membuka kafe sendiri dan waktu itu ga senagaj ayahnya itu hampir ketabrak dan vienzha yang lewat situ langsung menariknya, kebetulan waktu itu vienzha lagi nyari kerja, ayah mereka yang melihat CVnya langsung menyuruhnya untuk datang ke kafe, setelah di interview akhirnya vienzha diterima kerja, asalnya vienzha ditawarin kerja full time tapi karena saat itu dia sudah bekerja di perusahaan yang lama jadinya vienzha cuma ngambil part time. Ga lama setelah Haruka pergi, Asuka pun ikut keluar dari rumah karena dia ga suka di atur-atur sementara mereka berdua hanya sibuk bekerja, saat itu Miyuki umurnya 1 tahun. vienzha pun meninggalkan mereka karena tidak ingin menggangu.

"Ibu kalian bagaimana kabarnya?"tanya ayahnya

"mungkin baik-baik saja, sekarang ibu sudah menikah lagi dan punya anak dari suaminya sekarang tapi ego ibu belum berubah!" jawab Asuka

"benarkah, jadi kita punya adik dari pria itu?" tanya Haruka

"ya, Miyuki namanya, jika bukan karena dia mungkin aku sudah tidak menganggap ibu, kadang kelakuan ibu membuat sakit hati orang dan kelewatan!" jawab Asuka

"ibu kalian tidak pernah berubah, ya sudah lah yang penting sekarang kita bisa berkumpul lagi, maaf karena baru sekarang ayah bisa bertemu dengan kalian! jadi kalian di sini bersama vienzha?" tanya ayahnya

"iya, tapi kalo Asuka ada kerjaan cuma kita berdua aja!" jawab Haruka

"bagaimana kalau kalian tinggal bersama ayah saja, bila perlu ajak juga vienzha tinggal bersama kita!" ucap ayahnya

"Asuka bujuklah vienzha untuk tinggal bersama kita, sana cepat!"sela Haruka

"kenapa harus aku yang bujuk dia, kamu saja!" jawab Asuka

"sudahlah cepat sana!" ucap Haruka sambil mendorong Asuka

Haruka hanya tertawa, Asuka pun mengetuk pintu kamarnya tapi tidak di jawab taunya lagi-lagi vienzha ketiduran di meja belajarnya, Asuka pun mematikan laptopnya dan memindahkannya ke kasur. kali ini Asuka mulai merasakan kembali getaran-getaran gimana gitu setelah menyelimutinya Asuka pun kembali ke ruang tamu padahal baru jam 7, akhirnya mereka ngobrol-ngobrol bertiga mengenang masa lalu githu. Asuka pun memberitahu Xiu berita bahagia inni, karena saking asyiknya ngobrol mereka seua tertidur di ruang tamu dan sekitar jam 12an, vienzha bangun lalu menyelimuti mereka dan membereskan sisa makanannya. Setelah itu dia pun kembali tidur. Keesokan harinya baru dibicarakan lagi, mulanya vienzha noalk soalnya bosnya itu dah baik banget, tapi setelah dibujuk Xiu, haruka dan Asuka akhirnya vienzha setuju, semua barang-barang dibereskan canggung sech tapi ya permulaan lah, semakin hari Asuka pun makin dekat, suatu hari ketika vienzha ada job di luar, dia seperti melihat Miyuki, begitu yakin dia langsung menghampiri Miyuki dan segera membawanya ke hotel, ternyata lagi-lagi Miyuki kabur dari rumah, dia pun cerita kalau orang tuanya selalu berantem dan setiap hari ujung-ujungnya Miyuki yang dimarahi, karena tidak tahan Miyuki kabur untuk cari Asuka, setelah urusan bisnisnya selesai vienzha pun membawa pulang Miyuki bersamanya, sesampainya Asuka kaget melihat Miyuki pulang bersama vienzha, miyuki juga sedikit bingung begitu Asuka memanggil bosnya vienzha ayah, Asuka pun memberitahu miyuki kalau orang itu adalah ayahnya dan dia juga mempunyai 1 kakak laki-laki lagi yaitu Haruka, meskipun pertama-tama canggung tapi Miyuki merasa sangat nyaman dengan mereka. Haruka pun mulai menyukai Miyuki, hari-hari mereka makin berwarna (pelangi kali). Semua karyawan pun sudah tahu kalau Asuka dan Haruka plus Miyuki adalah anak bosnya. Suatu hari ayahnya berencana untuk menemui ibu mereka, mulanya Haruka menentang tapi akhirnya setelah dibujuk Haruka pun mau, tapi vienzha juga harus ikut. Sesampainya ibunya sangat terkejut melihat mantan suaminya itu, ternyata ayahnya itu hanya ingin memberitahu kalau Miyuki tinggal bersamanya selama beberapa hari dan dia ingin mengajak miyuki untuk tinggal bersama lagi, eh dasar darah tinggi kali ya, ibu mereka malah marah-marah dan memaki kenapa dia kembali, ditambah lagi melihat vienzha juga ikut ya vienzha dianggep sebagai penghasut ya pokoknya yang jelek-jelek lah, wah pasti sakit hati banget tu si vienzha. Suaminya yang sekarang pun membela vienzha, tapi istrinya itu ga mau terima, karena saking kelewatan suaminya ga terima dan dia langsung mentalak istrinya itu dan suaminya juga akhirnya membuka kedok sang istri, kalau sebenernya Miyuki itu bukan anaknya karena istrinya itu sebelum menikah sudah hamil dengan pria lain. lalu suaminya pun pergi dari rumah itu dengan membawa barang-barang yang sudah dipersiapkan karena dia ga tahan dengan sikapnya yang makin menjadi. ga lama setelah suaminya pergi, istrinya mengusir mereka semua. haruka pun tanpa pikir panjang lagi langsung pergi, lalu istrinya itu sambil mengeluarkan barang-barang Miyuki, bajunya, bukunya pokoknya barang milik Miyuki dikeluarkan semua dibantu pembantunya setelah semuanya dikeluarkan dia pun memnutup pintunya. hampir aja kepala Miyuki kena ujung tasnya tapi untungnya dihalangi vienzha. miyuki hanya menangis, mereka pun segera membereskan semua barang Miyuki dan pulang. Akhirnya Miyuki tinggal bersama mereka, semuanya dipersiapkan termasuk sekolah barunnya miyuki. semenjak itu mereka tidak berhubungan lagi dengan ibunya, hati vienzha pun mulai ga tentu kalau dekat dengan Asuka dan ketika lagi kumpul setelah dibujuk haruka dan Xiu, Asuka mengutarakan perasaannya meskipun dengan dinginnya, ayahnya dan Haruka juga Miyuki hanya tertawa melihat ekspresi Asuka dan vienzha, karena malu mungkin jadinya Asuka langsung ke kamar vienzha pun jadi diledek, semenjak itu vienzha dan Asuka pacaran ya meskipun ga kayak yang lain tapi mereka menjalaninya dengan nyaman. 3 bulan kemudian, keluarga Asuka ingin bertemu dengan orang tuanya vienzha ya untuk melamarnya, alhamdulillah orang tuanya vienzha setuju ya meskipun kadang suak bingung soalnya Haruka dan Asuka masih belum bisa bahasa indonesia. Asuka pun malu-malu kucing termasuk vienzha. Keluarga keduanya menyetujui tunangan dulu, acaranya di tempat vienzha, semua keluarga besar Asuka pun datang, selang beberapa bulan sebelum menikah, ibunya Asuka kecelakaan dan sebelum meninggal dia belum sempat untuk meminta maaf pada yang lainnya. mulanya mereka ga bisa memaafkan tapi bagaimanapun juga dia adalah ibunya. Akhirnya hari yang ditunggu vienzha dan Asuka tiba, dimana mereka akan menikah alhamdulilah semuanya berjalan lancar dan Asuka juga alhamdulilah lancar mengucapkan ijab kabulnya. beberapa teman vienzha datang dan rencananya ayah vienzha dan ayah Asuka akan membuka usaha baru di Indonesia. Sementara haruka 1 tahum kemudian dia menyusul menikah, Acara resepsinya di adakan 2 kali dan keluarganya vienzha juga datang ke Jepang, resepsi kedua Asuka dan vienzha digabungkan dengan resepsi Haruka jadinya mewah dan semua keluarga besar kumpul. Asuka dan vienzha pun hidup bahagia begitu pun dengan Haruka dan pasangannya. Miyuki dan ayahnya akan tinggal di Indonesia smentara usahanya di Jepang akan diurus Asuka dan haruka.oiya xiu juga dapat pasangan tapi mereka belum memikirkan untuk menikah. usahanya pun lancar jadi semuanya HAPPY ENDING .

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Judul Tulisan : My Love In Japan

Pesan Tulisan : Semoga saja ada yang meyukainya, mohon maaf bila kurang menarik, sedang belajar.

Cerita cinta | Ketika nyawa taruhannya

2011-08-05T02:23:00.001+07:00

Kisah dan cerita cinta ini terjadi saat saya masih kuliah, ketika itu darah muda masih mengalir dengan derasnya, tatapan mata masih liar melirik ke segala arah pandangan. saya memiliki seorang teman yang memiliki wajah cukup menarik, namanya lucky. Begitu banyak cewek yang tak tahan dengan rayuannya, tak ada gadis yang tak mampu diraihnya. Tapi saat itu lucky mendapatkan tantangan dari seorang temanku lagi yang bernama tio. Tantangannya adalah mendapatkan seorang gadis jurusan keungan yang katanya sangat cantik dan sulit untuk dirayu. Lucky lalu menerima tawaran itu.

Setiap hari lucky selalu mendekati cewek yang memang berwajah cantik itu, tapi sang gadis selalu cuek kepada lucky, namun ketidak pedulian itu menambah semangat lucky, katanya "nah ini baru tantangan!!". Suatu ketika, lucky memberanikan diri mendekati sang cewek yang sedang bercanda dengan teman-temannya, selangkah demi selangkah lucky berjalan, tapi tiba-tiba saya dan teman-teman sangat terkejut ketika sang cewek menyiram wajah lucky dengan segelas air yang membasahi sekujur tubuh lucky. Wajah lucky memerah, ia menatap gadis itu dengan penuh rasa dendam dan kemudian berjalan perlahan meninggalkan sang cewek pujaannya. "Ingat rie!!bakal aku balas dengan yang lebih menyakitkan!!!, "kata lucky ketika berjalan disampingku.

Hari berganti hari, sudah hampir sebulan saya tak melihat lucky, tak ada yang tahu keberadaan lucky, ternyata sepi juga tanpa canda tawa dari seorang temanku itu "kataku dalam hati".

Saat itu Angin bertiup pelan menghembus helai rambutku yang sedang asik berbincang dengan teman-temanku, tapi kemudian sebuah gelas putih yang kuletakkan diatas meja terjatuh dan terhempas ke hamparan tanah, seorang temanku berteriak "oi lihat itu lucky!!!", aku lalu menatap ke ujung pandangan, ternyata benar itu lucky, tapi ia sedang berjalan dengan siapa? kutatap saat itu ia sedang menggandeng seorang gadis. Kutatap perlahan ia berjalan ke arah ku. "Hallo semua!!!", teriak lucky. Aku terkejut sangat terkejut, "bukannya itu cewek keuangan yang menyiram lucky?", tanyaku dalam hati. "Nih kenalin Ria", kata lucky sambil tersenyum. Si cewek lalu berkenalan dengan ku dan teman-temanku. Setelah agak lama berbincang, lucky lalu berkata, "eh gw ke kantin dulu ya", katanya yang kemudian tersenyum kepadaku, sebuah senyuman yang agak aneh, antara bahagia dan kemunafikan, ah tapi aku tak terlalu dengan hal itu, yang penting temanku sudah bahagia, pikirku.

Semenjak lucky dekat atau mungkin pacaran dengan cewek itu, lucky sangat berubah, dia jarang ngumpul lagi denganku dan teman-teman, dan terdengar pula kabar lucky sering clubbing dengan pacar barunya.

Saat itu sore menjelang hampir dua bulan hubungan pertemanan ku dengan lucky tak ada komunikasi, padahal lucky adalah sahabatku tapi mungkin ia lebih memilih pacarnya daripada sahabatnya yang cupu ini. lembayung bersinar dengan indahnya, matahari perlahan meredup burung-burung berterbangan pertanda akan datangnya malam. Hp ku berdering begitu kerasnya, memecahkan lamunanku, ketika kujawab "hallo", "hallo ini arie ya?", "ya ini arie, ini siapa ya?", "ini ria...kamu tahukan?", "ya aku tahu ria, tapi ada apa ya?", kamu pernah ngelihat lucky ga? soalnya ga ada kabar dari dia!?", "loh bukannya dia sering jalan ama kamu?, aku aja ga tahu dia ada dimana sekarang", "ou...gitu ya...ya udah deh makasih ya"...tut..tut..tut

Aku bingung, sangat bingung...ada apa dengan si lucky sebenarnya, aku lalu memberanikan diri mendatangi tempat dimana si lucky biasa nongkrong baru-baru ini. Saat itu jam di tanganku menunjukan angka 11 pertanda hari telah larut, tapi suasana masih sangat ramai saat itu ketika aku sampai di tempat yang disebut orang-orang "club" atau apalah. mataku mencari-cari sosok sahabatku itu, tak sekilaspun mataku berkedip...kutatap ke seluruh pandangan, tapi kemudian pandangan ku terhenti, aku melihat seorang lelaki yang sedang asyik bermesraan dengan seorang cewek sambil memegang segelas minuman, laki-laki itu mirip dengan sahabatku itu "lucky". Aku lalu berjalan ke arah laki-laki itu, ternyata benar dia lucky. "Eh lo rie!!!!, hahaha...ternyata lo kesini juga!!, nih minum, kata lucky menyambutku. "Ga ky, gw cuma mau tahu aja keadaan lo gimana, anak-anak nyariin lo", jawabku. "Gw ya gini-gini aja rie, yuk happy rie!!!", teriak lucky yang terlihat mabuk. "Ky...tadi ria nelp gw nanyain lo, ada apa ky?", tanyaku. Tapi lucky menjawabnya dengan wajah yang sedikit marah..."Ah mampus aja tu anak!!!". Aku terdiam, beribu tanya di hatiku, "ada apa sebenarnya ini?"

Esok hari ketika matahari telah bersandar di tahtanya, aku membuka mataku dan bergegas ke kamar mandi. Namun ketika aku baru saja hendak melemaskan seruluh tubuhku yang baru tersadar, hp ku berdering. Saat kutatap hp ku itu, kulihat nomor yang sama dengan ria, aku lalu bergegas menjawabnya. "Hallo", "Hallo rie, apa udah ada kabar dari lucky?", "hmm...aku ga tahu lucky ada dimana ria, ntar dah kalo udah ada kabar dari lucky aku kasih tahu", "Rie...besok aku boleh ngobrob ama kamu ga?", "ngobrol aja sekarang...kan sama aja", "ga deh besok aja aku tunggu di kantin", "ok deh...". Aku lalu mengambil segelas yang berisikan air putih lalu kuteguk minuman itu, gundah yang kurakan perlahan menghilang...aku sangat bingung ketika itu..."apa yang harus aku lakukan?". Hari terasa berlalu sangat cepat...malam telah datang, bintang-bintang bertaburan memancarkan cahayanya yang begitu indah. Aku lalu mengambil kunci motorku dan bergegas ke club tempat lucky kemarin.

Saat aku sampai di tempat itu, terlihat senyum nakal seorang gadis menggodaku, tapi aku tak peduli...aku mempercepat langkahku mencari lucky. Tapi ketika aku telah bertemu dengan lucky, jawaban lucky selalu sama, "mampus aja tu anak". Aku sangat kecewa, sedikitpun usahaku ini tak ada artinya. Aku lalu pulang dengan rasa gundah di benakku.

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Rintik-rintik hujan terjun ke bumi bagaikan terbang tanpa sayapnya. Dingin sangat dingin, membasahi daun yang telah mengering, ketika itu pagi, aku sedang memetik gitar tua yang tak pernah lagi kebelai. Aku teringat janjiku ke ria. Aku lalu bergegas ke kampus, walaupun hujan masih berterbangan di helai-helai udara.

Aku kemudian sampai di kantin dengan baju yang sedikit basahtapi aku tetap tersenyum "hai ria, udah lama nunggu? sorry hujan tadi", kata ku kepada ria yang telah terduduk sendiri. "Ah ga papa rie, tapi kamu kehujanan gini...harusnya aku yahng minta maaf udah ngerepotin", jawab ria. "Katanya mau cerita?, cerita apa nie?", kataku sambil bercanda. "Rie sebenarnya aku kangen dengan lucky, dia ga pernah ngabarin aku lagi". "Wah kangen? knapa ga nelp si lucky aja?", "Udah tapi hp nya ga pernah aktif", "emang udah brapa lama sih?", "Semenjak....", kata ria yang kemudian terdiam. Rasa penasaran terus menghantuiku, "semenjak lucky punya pacar baru?", kataku sambil tertawa. Aku terkejut sangat terkejut ketika air mata menetes dari pipi cantik ria. "Ria kamu kenapa? kamu kok nangis, ada yang salah dengan ucapan ku tadi ya?", kataku gundah. "Lucky berubah semenjak tahu kalau aku hamil!!!", kata ria sambil tersedu-sedu. "Ha hamil!!!", kataku bingung. "Ya aku hamil rie...aku bingung", "apa orang tua kamu udah tahu?", "hmm...ya...mereka udah tahu". Aku terdiam, tak ada kata yang mampu kuucapkan...beribu bimbang kurasakan saat itu, seorang sahabatku...

Ketika malam datang aku bergegas ke tempat lucky, kutemui dia...saat aku meliat lucky, kutarik tubuhnya yang telah mabuk itu..."eh ky...lo kenapa sih...si rie berulang kali nanyain lo!!!", kata ku sambil berteriak. "Ah mampus aja tu anak!!!", jawabnya sambil membentak ku. "Brengsek lo!!!", kata ku sambil menamparnya. "Lo tahu kan dia hamil!!!!, tega amat lo!!!". Lucky terdiam sejenak kemudian tertawa dengan kerasnya...."ha...haa...haa...gw kan udah pernah bilang ama lo!!! tunggu aja balasan gw ke tu anak!!!", kata lucky sambil tertawa. "Tapi ga gini caranya luck!!!
, lo ngerusak anak orang", bentak ku. "Justru ini tujuan gw pacaran ama dia!!!...hahaha...", jawab lucky lagi. "Lo emang kelewatan...lo ingat luck, ntar lo nyesel". "Gw ga kan nyesel rie...gw malah bahagia...kok malah lo yang sewot sih...lo aja yang pacaran ama dia sana!!!", kata lucky yang menatangku. "Brengsek lo!!". Aku lalu menariknya ketika tangan ku hendak memukulnya, seorang lelaki berbadan tegap memelukku dan mengusirku dari club itu, perasaanku bercampur ketika itu, marah, sedih dan kecewa. Aku terjatuh ketika pria bertubuh besar itu mendorongku ke tanah yang terhiasi bunga cantik yang berwarna putih, kulihat tubuhku berada diatas kuntum bunga itu, kutatap bunga itu terlah rusak dan mati karena ku.

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Esok hari ketika gundahku masih memaksa ku untuk berteriak, aku menenangkan diriku dengan temaku, sebuah gitar yang terbaring kaku disebelahku. Kupetik gitar itu dan kemainkan nada-nada indah yang sedikit menghiburku. Tapi tiba-tiba hp ku berdering, kuliat ternyata hanya pesan singkat. Aku pun tak peduli dengan itu...aku terus memetik gitar tua ku itu. Ketika aku perlahan bernyanyi, rasa penasaran timbul dari benakku, aku lalu membuka isi pesan itu, ternyata dari ria, aku lalu membacanya...

rie...tadi lucky nelpon aku, aku bahagia rie...akhirnya dia ngehubungi aku lagi...walaupun dia tetap dengan keegoisannya yang tak mau bertanggung jawab dengan bayi yang kukandung ini...dia dengan lancarnya bilang 'Gugurin aja tu anak, aku ga mau punya anak!!!"...aku bingung rie, daripada aku harus menggugurkan anak ini yang merupakan anugrah dari tuhan...lebih baik aku pergi darinya...

Aku terdiam merenungkan isi sms itu...tiba-tiba hp ku berdering lagi, sebuah sms lagi dari ria, aku lalu bergegas membaca isi sms itu...

aku ga tahan dengan cobaan ini rie...orang tua ku!!!aku udah membuat semuanya malu...mungkin ini adalah sms terakrih dari aku rie...makasih udah mau mengerti dan mendengar curhatan aku...aku titip lucky rie

Aku terkejut membaca sms itu...Apa maksud dari sms ini?!!!, apa ria senekat itu?!!!...aku lalu menghubungi ria, tapi hp nya ga aktif. Langkahku bergegas ke kampus...kucari teman-temanku...ternyata benar, teman-temanku sedang sibuk bercerita tentang ria, ketika itu 2 jam berselang setelah ria mengirim sms kepadaku, "Rie lo tahu ga? rie minum racun...sekarang dia di ugd...", kata tio. "Ha...bener tu!!!", "ya rie...", "yuk kita kesana"...kami lalu menuju rumah sakit tempat ria dirawat.

Air mataku tak mampu kebendung, menetes dari pipiku ketika melihat ria terbaring lemas diatas kasur yang beralaskan sprei warna putih itu. Tapi aku terkejut ketika seorang laki-laki tua menghampiri dan langsung menamparku, "Kamu yang namanya lucky ya!!!, brengsek kamu!!!", "Om tenang dulu...saya buan lucky, saya arie...", kataku sambil menahan rasa sakit di pipi ku. Ou rupanya laki-laki tua itu adalah ayah dari ria...ia lalu terdiam dan terduduk di lantai sambil menetesan air mata. "Maap...saya kira kamu lucky...laki-laki bangsat yang udah membuat anak saya seperti ini!!!", "ga papa om...", jawab ku. Ketika suasana terhening, terdengar pelan suara ria "Lucky...lucky...", aku semakin tak tahan dengan kepedihan itu...aku lalu meninggalkan teman-temanku dan ria, maksudku ingin mencari lucky. Aku menuju ke rumah lucky, tapi aku tak menemuinya...aku terus mencarinya ketika itu dengan penuh gundah tapi aku tetap tak menemuinya. Ketika malam datang, aku tahu dimana satu-satunya tempat aku bisa menemi si lucky...aku lalu mendatangi club itu lagi, ternyata benar...lucky telah ada disana...aku lalu menghampirinya..."Ky...lo harus ketemu nia!!!", "lo lagi rie...mak bapaknya aja ga ada nyariin gw, kok lo semangat amat sih!!!", sindir lucky. "Ky lo sebenarnya sayang ga sih ama si ria?", "Mana ada gw sayang ama tu anak!!! gw cuma dendam", "Ou jadi lo selama ini ga sedikitpun sayang ama dia?, gimana kalau dia udah ninggalin lo ky", kataku. "Terserah kalau dia mau mutusin aku, justru gw senang putus ama dia". "Gimana kalau dia ninggalin lo selamanya", kataku sambil menatap mata lucky. "Selamanya?!!", tanya lucky bingung. "Lo tahu...tadi pagi ria nekat minum racun karena lo!!!, kalau lo masih sayang ama dia, ayo ikut gw ke rumah sakit...tapi kalau lo ga mau juga ga papa", kata ku. Lucky lalu terdiam, aku lalu melangkahkan kaki ku perlahan. tapi tiba-tiba lucky berlari mengejarku "serius lo ria sekarang di rumah sakit?", "ya sekarang dia lagi kirtis!!!". Terliat air mata menetes dari pipi lucky, ternyata lucky masih menyayangi ria, tapi tertutupi karena dendamnya yang membuatnya khilaf. Kami lalu bergegas ke rumah sakit...di perlanan lucky bercerita kepadaku..."sebenarnya gw sayang ama ria, tapi...gw kesel ama kelakuan dia dulu itu...tapi gw ga balakan nyakitin dia lagi...gw mau kok tanggung jawab...", kata lucky dengan wajah yang bimbang.

Ketika kami tiba di rumah sakit lucky berkata lagi "Rie ntar lo yang jadi saksi kalau gw nikah dengan ria ya', kata lucky sambil bercanda, tapi tiba-tiba aku sangat terkejut ketika mendengar suara tangis yang begitu keras, lucky lalu berlari ke arah tempat tidur ria...lucky melihat ria sudah terbujur kaku...hanya sebuah senyum yang hampa menghiasi wajah ria...tangisan lucky tak mampu dibendungnya..."ria!!!maafin gw!!!gw mau jadi bapak dari anak kita!!!", kata lucky sambil berteriak...air matanya terus menetes tak henti membasahi bumi...lucky kemudian menggengam tangan ria...dikecupnya tangan yang sudah kaku itu...lucky terdiam sesaat ketika melihat tangan ria masih memegang kalung yang berhiaskan angka "L"...lucky lalu berjalan ke arahku..."gw nyesel rie...gw udah nyia-nyiain dia...kalung ini masih dia genggam sampai dia ningalin aku selama-lamanya...kalung ini pemberian aku rie, saat itu aku bilang ke ria , jaga kalung ini...kalung ini tanda cinta aku ke ria selamanya...", kata lucky sambil menangis. Aku hanya terdiam mendengar kata-kata lucky, tak ada yang mampu ku ucapkan...hanya air mata yang menetes dari pipiku...

Semua telah terlambat, saat dendam telah meracuni...penyesalan pun datang ketika nyawa telah menjadi taruhannya.

Cerita Cinta Terlarang Seru

2011-08-05T01:18:00.001+07:00

Cerita cinta terlarang Presiden Obama; Kabar perselingkuhan Obama yang dihembuskan ketika ia berkampanye untuk menjadi capres pada 2007-2008 lalu ini kembali merebak. Namun ketika itu, media AS merahasiakan nama Vera Baker, mantan manajer kampanye Obama yang dituding sebagai selingkuhannya.

Perselingkuhan Obama dan Baker, jika benar terjadi, tepat ketika Presiden AS ke-44 tersebut sedang berkampanye untuk menjadi senator di negara bagian asalnya, Illinois. Namun, Baker pada akhirnya mengasingkan diri di Karibia karena Michelle Obama, mulai mengendus hubungan keduanya.

Perselingkuhan bukanlah sebuah dosa baru di jejak rekam para presiden AS. Dari 44 presiden, berdasarkan dokumentasi History Channel hampir semuanya pernah berselingkuh ketika mereka belum menjabat sebagai orang nomor satu di Gedung Putih. Hanya satu yang belum terkuak dosanya, yakni Ronald Reagan. Beberapa melakukannya di kantor mereka.

Perselingkuhan presiden tertua yang pernah tercatat, adalah Presiden Thomas Jefferson. Presiden yang wajahnya terukir di Mount Rushmore ini sebenarnya seorang pria terhormat dari Virginia yang menjabat pada 1801-1809. Meski menentang perbudakan, ia mempekerjakan budak di salah satu perkebunannya.

Ketika itulah ia tertarik dengan seorang budak yang ia temukan di Prancis, Sally Hemings. Keduanya bahkan memiliki lima orang anak dan hanya satu putra yang selamat hingga dewasa, Madison. Dalam wasiatnya, Jefferson membebaskan Hemings dan keturunannya dari perbudakan.

Kemudian Presiden Warren Harding [1921-1923] yang dikatakan sebagai presiden paling tak pantas dalam sejarah AS. Ia sangat misterius dan tewas ketika menjabat. Muncul dugaan, ia diracun istrinya sendiri meski catatan resmi menyatakan Harding tewas karena serangan jantung. Ia tercatat berselingkuh dengan dua perempuan dan memiliki keturunan dari salah satunya.

Selanjutnya adalah presiden yang banyak dikagumi rakyatnya, Franklin D Roosevelt [1933-1945]. Eleanor Roosevelt ternyata bukan satu-satunya cinta dalam kehidupannya. Ia sempat menjalin kisah cinta dengan sekretaris Eleanor, Lucy Mercer. Perselingkuhan terbongkar karena Eleanor menemukan surat cinta Mercer untuk suaminya.

Presiden Dwight D Eisenhower [1953-1961], terkena panah asmara seorang mantan model Inggris, Kay Summersby, ketika Perang Dunia II sedang terjadi. Summersby sendiri yang membongkar perselingkuhan mereka melalui sebuah buku yang diterbitkan setelah sang presiden tewas.

John F Kennedy [1961-1963] termasuk jajaran presiden yang berselingkuh ketika masih menjabat. Perselingkuhannya terlalu banyak untuk disusun menjadi sebuah daftar. Mulai dari staf Gedung Putih, reporter, hingga bintang film sekelas bom seks Marilyn Monroe. Ia bahkan memiliki suite khusus di Hotel Mayflower untuk bersenang-senang.

Lyndon Baines Johnson [1963-1969], penerus JFK, juga mengikuti jejak pendahulunya itu. Johnson lebih pintar menyembunyikannya. Salah satu dari selingkuhannya melahirkan seorang putra yang ia rawat hingga dewasa. Johnson membeli apartemen khusus untuk selingkuhannya ini.

Terakhir adalah yang paling menghebohkan sejarah perselingkuhan presiden AS, Bill Clinton [1993-2001]. Rakyat Amerika masih mengingat jelas kisah asmaranya dengan salah satu staf Gedung Putih, Monica Lewinsky. Meski mulanya menyangkal, Bill akhirnya mengaku berselingkuh dengan Lewinsky yang ketika itu berusia 21 tahun.***
[joglopos.com]

Cerita cinta terlarang Putra Osama Bin Laden; Putra Osama bin Laden menjalin hubungan cinta dengan wanita Barat. Kontroversi macam apa yang bakal muncul ke permukaan? Walaupun terasa sulit dipercaya, itulah yang terjadi. Omar bin Osama bin Laden, putra keempat Osama bin Laden, menjalin hubungan cinta dengan Jane Felix-Browne, wanita berkewarganegaraan Inggris. Kepolisian Inggris pun dibuat heboh.

Ada fakta yang saling bertolak belakang, kalaupun bukan berbenturan, dalam hubungan cinta Omar dan Jane itu. Pertama, Osama adalah tokoh yang sangat membenci Barat, dalam hal ini Amerika Serikat dan beberapa negara Eropa, terutama Inggris. Ia bahkan menjadikan negara-negara itu sebagai sasaran aksi terornya. Tapi sang anak, Omar, justru menjalin hubungan cinta dengan wanita Barat.

Hal yang kedua menyangkut posisi Inggris sendiri. Seperti diketahui, pada 2005, Inggris pernah menjadi sasaran aksi terorisme dengan peledakan bom. Karena itu, dalam aksi menumpas ancaman teror, negara ini berada di jajaran terdepan. Tapi, lagi-lagi ironisnya, seorang warga negaranya, Jane Felix-Browne, justru menjalin hubungan cinta dengan putra Osama bin Laden, yang dituduh sebagai sang teroris. Hubungan cinta Jane dan Omar sempat menjadi berita utama selama beberapa pekan di beberapa media massa Inggris. Gosip ini menjadi perbicangan panas publik Inggris.

Jadi, ditilik dari dua hal tersebut, hubungan cinta mereka menjadi sebuah anomali. Bagaimana mungkin dua “entitas” yang bertolak belakang, bisa menyatu menjadi satu dalam jalinan kasih? Tapi itulah faktanya.

Begini cerita mulanya kedua insan dari dua dunia berbeda itu saling jatuh cinta. Mereka pertama kali bertemu secara tidak sengaja di Piramida Giza, Mesir, dalam sebuah acara liburan. Mereka berkenalan dan lalu saling cocok dan suka. Dalam buku ini diceritakan bahwa saat itu ada dua kemungkinan. Pertama, Jane belum tahu dengan latar belakang Omar sebagai putra Osama. Mereka saling jatuh cinta dan soal itu tidak menjadi penghambat. Kedua, Jane sudah tahu tentang hal itu, tapi tidak mempermasalahkannya.

Kepolosan Jane yang melihat Omar sebagai Omar, tidak disangkutpautkan dengan sang ayah, menjadi satu nilai lebih yang membuat Omar terpikat hati pada Jane. Tampaknya, dalam berbagai sepak terjang hidupnya, Omar selalu menerima kecurigaan dari orang-orang sekitarnya, karena statusnya sebagai putra Osama. Dan ketika perlakuan negatif seperti itu tidak ia dapatkan dari Jane, ia menjadi bersimpati pada Jane dan jatuh cinta.

Namun publik tidak sesederhana itu melihat hubungan cinta mereka. Dan perjalanan kisah cinta Omar dan Jane pun menjadi penuh lika-liku. Bayang-bayang terorisme dikait-kaitkan. Publik menghubung-hubungkan Omar dengan sosok sang ayah, dengan atribut teroris yang melekat. Maka, berbagai hambatan dan halangan merintangi perjalanan cinta Omar dan Jane. Mulai dari urusan yang berkaitan dengan pihak keamanan Inggris hingga ancaman pembunuhan yang dilontarkan pihak-pihak tertentu yang tidak merestui hubungan keduanya. Dari sudut pandang ini, kisah cinta Omar dan Jane menjadi bagai drama dengan aneka suspense, sekaligus romantis.

Satu hal yang sangat menarik adalah peryataan Jane seputar kontroversi kisah cinta ini. Jane mengatakan, “Yang kami inginkan adalah perdamaian di dunia ini, dan saya akan melakukan apa saja yang dapat kami lakukan untuk mempromosikannya.” Sepertinya, pernyataan ini menyingkap sedikit motivasi yang membuat Omar dan Jane kuat menghadapi segala rintagan dan hambatan. Dalam buku ini, kisah cinta mereka diistilahkan dengan cinta lintas peradaban, yakni mengacu pada perbedaan latar belakang antarkeduanya.

Di samping itu, tampaknya istilah yang sama juga mengacu pada pesan yang bisa dipetik dari kisah cinta mereka, yaitu perbedaan budaya, latar sosial, bangsa, dan kenegaraan bukanlah hambatan bagi siapa pun untuk senantiasa berharap bahwa kekuatan cinta akan mampu menyatukan umat manusia dalam lingkaran kasih dan damai. Lebih penting lagi, di tengah gencarnya terpaan isu terorisme dan berbagai macam kecurigaan, Omar dan Jane tetap berusaha menjaga kepercayaan cinta mereka, untuk membuktikan bahwa kesucian cinta adalah kekuatan terbesar yang mampu melawan dan mengalahkan terorisme.

Dalam hal itu, buku ini menegaskan: ”Akhirnya, satu kata yang berhasil dibuktikan… bahwa kekuatan cinta dapat menembus berbagai macam kebuntuan dan beragam masalah. Kekuatan cinta dapat melintasi berbagai perbedaan bangsa, negara, dan juga peradaban. Isu terorisme, teryata gagal memisahkan Omar dan Jane. Kekuatan cinta keduanya, justru berhasil meredam kerasnya isu terorisme. Keduanya berhasil membuktikan bahwa kekuatan api cinta mampu memadamkan panasnya isu terorisme. Jane dan Omar seakan hendak menegaskan bahwa dengan kekuatan cinta, umat manusia di bumi ini dapat hidup damai, tanpa gejolak teror atau konflik. Dongeng cinta Jane Felix-Browne dan Omar bin Laden adalah kekuatan cinta lintas peradaban”. Jadi, kekuatan cinta Omar dan Jane justru ada pada keanomaliannya.***[blogberita.net]

Judul asli resensi buku ini: Anomali cinta putra Osama
Judul buku: Cinta Terlarang Putra Osama bin Laden dengan Janda Inggris
Penulis: Avee Jaffarian
Penerbit: Jazeera

Cerita cinta terlarang Krisdayanti & Raul Lemos; Tak hanya panas di tanah air, cerita cinta terlarang antara KD dan Raul Lemos terdengar sampai negeri seberang. Wartawan senior Linda Djalil membuat sebuah puisi fiksi yang isinya seperti menyindir kisah cinta terlarang antara Krisdayanti dengan Raul Lemos.

Puisi karya Linda Djalil yang berjudul “Pipi..Pipi..Ini Mimi… Bukan Mimi yang Dulu Lagi….” ini bahkan membuat heboh sampai ke Singapura.

Berikut isi puisi selengkapnya:
Pipi..Pipi..Ini Mimi…Bukan Mimi yang Dulu Lagi….

Pipi.. Pipi..
Mimi bingung sekarang..
Mengapa banyak mata terbelalak melihat hubungan ini, padahal Mimi hanya ‘sekedar’ ingin cinta-cintaan dan yayang-yayangan…
Dengan lelaki yang Mimi anggap keren dahsyat luar biasa dan kelasnya jauh di atas Pipi…

Pipi.. Pipi.. Mengapa bayaran yang aku terima begitu mahal, sampai menembus langitpun rasanya kelewat mahal, anak sudah tak Mimi punya
Tepuk tangan meriah gemuruh dari depan panggung juga sepi rasanya ke mana mereka..
Menghilang.. Lenyap
Bagai aku diludahi sampai ke bawah tanah..
Maka akupun mengumbar air mata, Pi..
Memohon ampun, maaf tiada tara
Karena aku tak tahu lelaki hebat itu sudah berpunya
Anak berderet, istri menanti
Ah, tapi itu kan memang untuk konsumsi publik, Pi..
Sebab meski segala yang dijual di negeri ini kelewat mahal
Masih ada yang murah..
Ya.. Ya.. Harga diri
Dan rasa malu

Betapa Mimi bisa mudah bersandiwara
Dengan harapan segala lagu bisa dicintai lagi oleh semua manusia
Tapi apakah semudah itu, paduka..
Sebab rasa malu yang murah itu juga sudah menjadi gulita

Pipi.. Pipi.. Rumah sekarang sepi
Lantai marmer cokelat muda yang dulu licin bagai padi bersemi sekarang tak lagi berseri
Gelak tawa canda anak-anak tak terdengar lagi..

Pipi.. Pipi..
Mimi bingung sekali lagi
Betapa bayaran yang harus ditebus mahal sekali
Hati seorang ibu yang terguncang hingga tak kuasa lagi kuat berdiri
Hingga jalanpun harus didorong kursi roda ke sana sini

Tapi bagaimana aku bisa membatasi semua ini, Pi…
Dorongan rasa dan hasrat besar tak terbendung lagi..
Melihat air mata dari seberang sana yang masih mengaku istri
Rasanya hanya butir angin sayup-sayup dan aku sungguh tak perduli..

Pipi.. Pipi..
Wajahku yang cantik dipermak setrika habis ini
Toh masih terlihat jauh lebih cantik dari si rambut panjang yang di samping Pipi menyanyi?
Tapi mengapa menggebunya orang menawar manggung tiap hari
Kepadaku sudah tak mampir lagi…

Pipi.. Pipi..
Aku kadang tertawa di dalam hati
Mampuslah semua orang kutipu dengan hati bernyanyi
Kemarin minta maaf kini mengulangi kembali
Air mata yang dulu bergulir ke pipi
Kini bisa kuganti dengan adegan mesra tempel-tempelan pipi
Sembari mengumbar sebentuk cincin yang melilitt di jari..
Agar dipertontonkan oleh layar televisi dan sengaja, agar gemuruh panas membara dari yang mengaku masih jadi istri kembali wajahnya tak sanggup berseri-seri..

Pipi.. Pipi..
Mimi memang bukan yang dulu lagi
Sekali lagi, bukan Mimi yang dulu lagi..
Sebab aku berhak merebut kebebasan sampai tinggi sekali meluas merebak tanpa berpikir malu seribu kali apalagi mengedepankan nurani..
Ah.., itu kan semua ungkapan basi..

Memikirkan kejujuran dan nurani, gini hareeeee….?

I am sorry good bye Pipi..
Mimi akan selamanya pergi
Meski diam-diam tak kuhindari rasa sakit hati..
Panik.. Panik sekali..
Kok jadi Pipi sekarang yang ke seluruh pelosok top sekali..
Bersama si rambut panjang yang cantik banget meski tanpa operasi..?
Hi…hiiii…hi….air mata ini kembali bergulir deras sebutir nasi..
Aku sepi Pi…
Sesungguhnya batinku sepi…

Sepi sekali..

Itulah sederet puisi karya Linda yang kabarnya sampai membuat KD marah dan akan menuntut Linda Djalil. Kuasa hukum Shechah Sagran alias Atta, Hotman Paris Hutapea, bersedia membacakan puisi kontroversi itu tanpa mau menjelaskan kasus yang terjadi. “Saya enggak mau bahas kasus hari ini. Saya hanya mau menghibur ibu-ibu di Indonesia dengan membaca puisi ini,” kata Hotman Paris. “Ini seperti yang terjadi di Jakarta atau Indonesia, kalau kau kasih puisi ini ke istri pasti air mata berderai,” ujar Hotman sambil menyindir Krisdayanti.***
[tabloidnova.com]

Kata Motivasi Islami tentang Kehidupan Cinta Sahabat

2011-08-05T00:11:00.003+07:00

KATA MOTIVASI ISLAMI TENTANG KEHIDUPAN CINTA SAHABAT | KALIMAT CINTA INDAH UNTUK SAHABAT

Kata bijak cinta dalam ilmu agama Islam yang amat sangat menyentuh hati patut diketahui agar faham akan makna apa itu cinta.

Namun sebelum itu, saya ingin mengajak Anda kembali untuk mengenang sebuah lagu tentang cinta dalam arti kehidupan manusia. Sebuah lagu yang memperkenalkan kepada kita bagaimana dan apakah yang harus kita lakukan ketika berhadapan dengan cinta.

Baiklah, masih ingat kah Anda dengan lagu dari Doel Sumbang yang berjudul Arti Kehidupan?
Lirik lagu tersebut adalah sebagai berikut :

Jangan berkata tidak
Bila Kau jatuh cinta
Terus terang sajalah buat apa berdusta

Cinta itu anugrah
maka berbahagialah
Sebab Kita sengsara bila tak punya cinta

Kata Motivasi Islami tentang Kehidupan Cinta Sahabat – Banyak memang lirik lagu dengan nada-nada cinta. Namun entah mengapa yang ada dalam fikiran saya saat ini adalah lirik lagu Arti Kehidupan dari Doel Sumbang tersebut. Lirik lagu tersebut hadir begitu saja dalam benak saya. Sama halnya ketika cinta hadir mengisi hati! Siapa yang bisa mengatur dan menduga manakala cinta merekah dalam hati?

Tulisan ini mengingatkan saya akan perjalanan cinta sahabat saya. Perjalanan cinta yang tidak mudah dan penuh dengan air mata. Sebagai sahabat yang sudah lama mengisi hari-harinya, sudah hampir lebih dari 13 tahun lamanya, sudah barang tentu saya sangat memahami apa yang ia rasakan, apa yang ia inginkan, dan apa yang tidak ia harapkan.

Ketika cinta yang ia inginkan hadir mengisi relung hatinya dalam kedamaian, ia bahagia sekali. Saya sangat terharu setelah sekian lama ia hidup dalam air mata derita. Kebahagiaanya adalah bagian dari kebahagiaan saya. Air matanya menjadi luka bagi saya dan pikiran menjadi tak menentu untuk menemukan dan ‘menampar’ dirinya agar ia tidak terus terpuruk dalam kubangan derita yang tak tahu kapan akan berakhir.

Hidup ini penuh misteri yang tak bisa kita duga!
Menurut Kamus Besar Bahasa Indonesia, cinta adalah merupakan wakil dari perasaan kasih, sayang, atau rindu yang sangat dalam. Namun dalam konteks atau kadar kalimat tertentu, ia bisa juga mewakili perasaan sedih. Cinta adalah salah satu sumber kekuatan unik dalam diri manusia. Ia menjadi tenaga penggerak hati dan jiwa yang akan menghasilkan sikap, perbuatan dan perilaku.

“Cinta adalah kekuatan yg mampu; mengubah duri jadi mawar; mengubah cuka jadi anggur; mengubah sedih jadi riang; mengubah amarah jadi ramah; mengubah musibah jadi muhibah.”

Begitu pula sebaliknya, cinta bisa saja dan sangat mungkin sekali merubah mawar menjadi duri, merubah anggur menjadi cuka, merubah riang menjadi sedih, merubah ramah menjadi amarah, dan merubah muhibah menjadi musibah.

Mengapa semua itu bisa terjadi dalam diri manusia?
Sabda Rasulullah SAW,”hati itu bersifat gampang terbolak-balik bagaikan bulu yang terombang-ambing oleh angin yang berputar-putar. Sebagaimana amal-amal dan perilaku kita yang senantiasa bersumber dari niat dan motivasi di dalam hati, maka cinta pun bisa mewujud dengan dasar niat yang beraneka rupa. Ada cinta yang tulus, penuh kerelaan. Namun ada pula cinta yang penuh duri dan racun. Ada cinta yang merupakan buah keimanan dan ketaqwaan. Namun ada pula cinta yang berlandaskan nafsu hina.”

Kata Motivasi Islami tentang Kehidupan Cinta Sahabat
Cinta itu adalah perasaan yang mesti ada pada tiap-tiap diri manusia, ia laksana setetes embun yang turun dari langit, bersih dan suci. Cuma tanahnyalah yang berlain-lainan menerimanya. Jika ia jatuh ke tanah yang tandus, tumbuhlah oleh karena embun itu kedurjanaan, kedustaan, penipu, langkah serong dan lain-lain perkara yang tercela. Tetapi jika ia jatuh kepada tanah yang subur, di sana akan tumbuh kesuciaan hati, keikhlasan, setia budi pekerti yang tinggi dan lain-lain perangai yang terpuji. HAMKA

Cinta bukan mengajar kita lemah, tetapi membangkitkan kekuatan. Cinta bukan mengajar kita menghinakan diri, tetapi menghembuskan kegagahan. Cinta bukan melemahkan semangat, tetapi membangkitkan semangat. HAMKA

Tanda cinta kepada Allah adalah banyak mengingat [menyebut] Nya, karena tidaklah engkau menyukai sesuatu kecuali engkau akan banyak mengingatnya. Ar Rabi’ bin Anas [Jami’ al ulum wal Hikam, Ibnu Rajab]

Sesungguhnya apabila badan sakit maka makan dan minum sulit untuk tertelan, istirahat dan tidur juga tidak nyaman. Demikian pula hati apabila telah terbelenggu dengan cinta dunia maka nasehat susah untuk memasukinya.Malik bin Dinar [Hilyatul Auliyaa’]

**Sahabatku sayang…, semoga cinta yang hadir saat ini adalah sungguh cinta yang benar engkau harapkan. Ku tak tahu ungkapan kata maaf paling indah yang seperti apa yang pantas aku ungkapkan sebab sungguh engkau memahami akan hadirnya aku menjadi bagian dalam kehidupanmu. Yang selalu aku ingat adalah, Allah SWT tidak akan memberikan cobaan di luar batas kemampuan umatNya. Sebab setiap manusia memiliki batas kesabaran. Berbahagialah bersama cinta yang baru

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Tips to Costumize Hair when Wedding for Woman

2011-07-04T16:57:00.000+07:00

Naturally, your wedding day is the most important day of your life. For this reason, you want everything to be perfect, including the flowers, cake, photography, music, gown, and of course, hair. Along with all the other aspects of a wedding, the hair needs to look better than ever. You will reach a point where you have to decide the type of wedding hair styles that appeal to you most.

Some brides prefer an updo while other brides like the hair worn down. To make your decision, several factors will come into play. For instance, if you are considering a theme wedding, then you should discuss wedding hair styles with the bridal party to ensure everyone is on the same page. This is important in that you will probably have friends standing up with you that have a variety of haircuts. For example, if you were planning a Victorian style wedding where the women had long, curly hair, the bridesmaid with the short hair would have a challenge to deal with.

Other factors important to consider include the style of your wedding gown, your specific hair type, the type of veil, headpiece, or hair jewelry you plan to wear, the season, and of course, your personal preference. If you will be wearing a wedding gown that has a low-cut neckline, soft, feminine curls would look beautiful, cascading around your bare shoulders. On the other hand, if the gown were high-collared, then you would want to consider wedding hair styles that could be worn up.

If you are simply unsure where to begin, keep in mind that traditional wedding hair styles never become outdated. These styles remain very popular and work well with a formal or informal wedding. This type of hairstyle would include an updo, sprayed and pinned into place and then tight curls created at the nape of your neck. Typically, a veil or headpiece would then be attached to the bun or roll at the crown, with soft tendrils flowing freely at the sides.

For many brides, the goal is to look sophisticated and elegant on this special day. If glamour is what you are looking for in wedding hair styles, then you could pull all your hair up in a topknot, which would be ideal for framing the face. With a bun created on the crown and then the rest of the hair swept into it, you would see chic contrasting streaks that are gorgeous and definitely glam.

Another option to consider when it comes to wedding hair styles is one that can be worn with short hair. In this case, the hair would be backcombed, as a way of creating fullness. Then, the hair would be pulled back smooth and pinned to create an oval shape. Finally, with a curling iron, you would create delicate curl that would fall just around the front part of the veil and fastened with bobby pins that match your hair color or adorned with gems.

To achieve a romantic look on your wedding day, you can always use a number of hair ornaments or jewelry. Even simple wedding hair styles can be enhanced with the right things. For example, you could wear your hair pulled back in a ponytail but by adding a chignon or beaded wrap, you have taken an everyday hairstyle and transformed it into a beautiful and romantic style. Even wearing your short hair down, you can add small pin curls and jeweled barrettes to create an elegant look. Other options to enhance wedding hair styles would be to interweave lace, ribbon, or matching gown fabric in your hair.

With a little creativity, the options for creating that fairytale look are endless. You might consider rolling your hair with medium size rollers with your hair just barely damp. Under a dryer, allow the curl to set and then when the rollers are removed, you can use a wide, bristle brush to brush the curls loosely. Then take the hair and twist it up, leaving small strands of the curl out with the rest of the hair secured with the veil or gemmed hair jewelry.

Finally, if you want a fairytale look, you can roll your hair with medium rollers. For the best results, make sure your hair is damp and then once rolled, set under a dryer. Once the rollers are removed, you will use a wide bristle brush to brush the curls out loosely, being careful not to pull the actual curl out and then twist the hair up and pin it. To complete the look, simply work with the curls until a tousled look has been achieved.

Use Natural Oil to Care Hair Loss

2011-07-01T14:53:00.000+07:00

Hair loss is a problem many of us face today and the reason for this major obstacle in our lives is because the environment, our food, which is irregular diet and the products we use on our hair.

Not many know that you can prevent hair loss in different ways. The basic shape and easier to prevent hair loss is the application of natural oil. Hair oil is very good and it is also important because it makes the hair grow stronger and thicker.

To help prevent this common problem here are some natural oils that can be applied to get rid of hair loss. Follow these tips from the hair loss continues.

Oil Fish - This may sound a little weird, but it is said that fish oil when applied to the head helps to improve hair growth and is also known as the best tips from hair loss throughout the world. However, the smell of this oil is nasty so taking fish oil pills really help increase hair growth.
Amla oil - Amla oil use is very effective for this type of problem. Which is made of pure natural ingredients that help your hair grow stronger and thicker as well. AMLA is an important ingredient in this oil, and the scalp and promotes hair growth nutrition. Massaging the head with amla oil is not sticky and leave overnight for best results.
Castor oil - to increase hair growth all you have to do is apply a little castor oil on the scalp of the head and not the entire length of hair will be difficult to remove when you wash. Wrap your head in a towel, and during the night. Wash the first hour of the morning and see the difference in a couple of weeks when done regularly. Castor oil is also good for skin treatments.
Mustard oil - mustard oil, when combined with that of heena is very effective and the best tips from hair loss. Apply on the hair first with henna leaves boiled and mixed with hot mustard oil. Remove the leaves and then gently massage your head with this mixture. Mustard oil has omega 3 fatty acids that help in hair growth.
Coconut oil - oil hair, so I know is that coconut oil. In recent years, said that coconut oil is best when it comes to strengthening the hair roots. Applying coconut oil to your hair once a week before taking a bath is very essential and the best tips from hair loss. You can also mix lemon juice with coconut oil and apply to hair.

These are some of the tips of the hair with the help of natural oil.

Hair Care Tips For Men

2011-07-01T06:15:00.000+07:00

Maybe most people assume that a man does not require hair treatment. And hair care is not just for women. A man also takes care of his hair regularly. Nowadays, it is usual when a man went to the salon for hair care. There is nothing wrong as long to keep clean and healthy hair. There are a few tips to keep in mind the men in hair care, the following tips:
1. Create a schedule for a haircut once a month. Men are more different than women. Especially about the hair care, hair usually grows wide man to the side. Then it must be addressed with a haircut six weeks on a regular basis.
2. Furthermore, in terms of hair cuts are better adapted to the shape of the head. It would make a neater appearance and jaw line will be seen more clearly.
3. To highlight the hair also needs deperhatikan. Do not just menghighlight regardless of the impact on the hair later. Ask your hair stylist to retain its original color and do not choose a color that is too glaring. And highlighted the areas that are always exposed to sunlight. Did you know that dark hair highlighted when the results will be rosy.
4. When you paint your hair will also need special care to use care products for colored hair. Because this product contains more conditioner that works to keep the hair from the sun so as not to dry. The sunlight will damage the hair texture and hair dye outlines.
5. In addition to specialty product colored hair is not wrong if it wore kondisoner. Use conditioner after shampooing because it can neutralize the pH of the hair caused by the acidic shampoo and conditioner that is alkaline.
6. For any gray hair can indeed be overcome by painting the hair. But you also have to be careful if you want to paint your own hair. Better get out a little capital to get maximum results.
7. Many people say that finding it hard to type haircut. We just need to continue the lines of existing pieces. It is usually faster than cutting hair with the first type.

Shown Beauty and Confident With Curly Hair

2011-07-01T03:13:00.001+07:00

Sometimes, performing with wavy or curly hair will look more different and more stylish. Now get curly hair is easier because of the salon. We can easily change the hair style according to our wishes. Want straight hair styles, wavy hair, long hair, curly hair, it's not difficult to obtain. Well, live maintenance in order to keep hair well groomed and look beautiful. To care curly hair, here are some tips:

Foam shampoo does not need to be leveled. We just rinse after shampooing your hair without leveling the foam to the entire hair. Foam will only make the hair become dry, and eventually become fluffy curly hair. Use of conditionerlah to consider, apply evenly from middle to tip of hair.

Do not let the fluffy hair.

Time to avoid dry hair comb. To work around this radius can be used to set the hair. It would be nice when it is used rarely toothed hair comb. The above step is done after using the conditioner.

Highlighting the hair texture. In this way we will make it easier for the curly hair like straight hair. You can reduce the volume of hair by pinning or mengucirnya in the middle without losing the texture of curly bottom. If your hair terlalumengembang the first set by using the gel.

Providing always gel as anywhere. Gel is very important for curly hair. Very useful once the use of hair gel to make it more flexible and not become hard. To use, hold the hair after it is completely dry. And wipe the merat on the hair.

Suggestions:

• Arrange to use the gel. Do terlalau excessive wear. Because it can cause oily hair.

• Alcohol use in styling products can cause dryness and frizz. So be careful to choose styling products.

• Avoid brushing your hair, because it can cause frizz. The beauty of hair is not only seen from the texture, but healthy or not. Not that difficult if your hair styled and cut it ugly, because you can still make the hair curly champion.

The characteristics of healthy curly hair:

pliable, soft, shiny, defined, and not wrinkled.

The characteristics of curly hair is not healthy:

dry, fluffy, tangled, broken ends of your hair, unruly dull.

Those are some tips to care for curly hair. Hope can help your hair dry and wrinkled could look more beautiful.

Tips thicken hair in a natural way

2011-07-01T00:17:00.000+07:00

After some time ago already post about how to cope with hair loss, keep the hair remains beautiful, naturally shiny hair, long hair care tips, so this time I will discuss about the tips to thicken hair naturally and by way of homemade too. Many say that the thick hair that is influenced by genetic factors. But that does not mean we can not have thin hair to thicken hair. Many different ways to get the hair appear thicker. Starting from the use of beauty products or even by natural means (homemade). A thick and healthy hair will be achieved if nutrients zinc, essential oils that stimulate hair growth and iron met. Most important is the nutrient zinc is always consumed by our hair. Well, where did we get the nutrients zinc? Of course the foods that contain zinc and iron. Lots of foods containing such substances. Such as nuts, seeds and seafood.

In addition to the above, can also apply a natural way or with a homemade. For example making your own essential oils:

a. Three drops of oil rosemery

b. Two drops of thyme oil

c. Three drops of lavender

d. 2 drops of cedarwood

e. Half a tablespoon of jojoba essential oil

f. Four teaspoons of grapeseed oil.

From the above ingredients combine into a single container and stir well. We can use essential oils to grease the scalp by massaging for about 3 minutes. The next step, head wrapped in warm towels and allowed to stand for one hour. If all steps have been done to stay clean the heads with water until clean.

Another simple recipe that can be practiced is

Tip I:

 Setting up a pecan and sangria, finely crushed to remove the oil. Use this oil to rub on the head. When done regularly, and thick black hair that is not a dream anymore.

Tip II:

 Prepare the green beans to taste, then boiled until the skin is lifted to the surface water (approximately 3 minutes). Lift and separate, we dapay use it as a message on our skin.

Perhaps the ways above can overcome your problems to get a dense and thick hair. Everything does not come just like that, it requires diligence and patience. If you want to try what's wrong with these methods can successfully make the hair thicker. Determining your own stay and make a decision. Good luck!

Beautiful Hair Style for Long Hair

2011-06-30T23:10:00.000+07:00

Hairdo can greatly influence a person's appearance. Try the following hairdo for the party and be prepared to get lots of compliments for it.

The Modern Chignon

Scarlett Johansson is one of the artists who love this type of hairstyle like this. He was pleased menggelung hair up to concentrate on his impeccable. Chignon, or coil model does look a bit traditional, but with a little game, hairdo will look beautiful, attractive, and the present. You can try to make that easier Chignon own if you do not want too modern as used Scarlett in photo 1. How, dry hair with a large round hair brush, create the parting on the side. Tie your hair like a ponytail at the back of the head, slightly downward. Take the hair that hung down, and then use to cover the hair tie and secure with hairpins. Give a little hairspray to the final appearance.

Pigtail Horse Classic (with a little style)

Ponytail, for the long hair is the choice of "safe". But, if you want to choose the type of style hairdo like this at the party later, so do not look ordinary, try to give a little extra style to make it look nicer. The trick, and blow dry hair to create a little volume at the top of the hair. Comb all the hair toward the back of the head, ponytail just behind the head, then cover your hair with some hair tie that hung down. With curling irons or hair rollers are large (if you have plenty of time), create big waves in the hair that hung down.

Swell

As for you who prefer digerai hair style, try creating a more formal appearance by creating huge waves. To create this hair, your hairdresser can apply the cream, then blow the hair to create volume near the roots. Then, take some part of hair, about 2 inches perbagian, and create a wave with a curling iron, hold for 2 seconds, then release. After doing all the parts of your hair, apply a little serum pengilat hair to give a natural glow effects.

Organizing Hair To stay looking young

2011-06-30T22:10:00.002+07:00

You are against fine lines around the face, had tried to tighten the muscles and skin on the body, as well as changing the dress code. However, without realizing it, the hair also appeared to have a stake in your appearance, whether seen with age or look older. So that no one arrangement, consider the following tips:

1. Too Short

Someone who has healthier hair and bushy certainly have no reason to cut it too short just to be age appropriate. Even when it was 40-50 years old, still many women who look more beautiful with long hair. If you really want to cut your hair, then try asking a bit shaggy pieces, like Sharon Stone's hairstyle. Short haircut to make someone look more modern and easier maintenance. To look more chic, use pomade (like wax) at the ends of hair.

2. Too long

Hair too long can make the hair look limp, and also make your face look fresh. As a result, even the face look older, especially if the hair length, without a model, with parts of the middle. If you do not want to lose the long hair, then try to keep long hair up to the chest only. Asymmetrical cuts or uneven will gaze into the beautiful hair, rather than facial imperfections. Since long hair tends to look dry and sticking, always use a conditioner to suit your hair condition.

3. Too dark

Some people use a jet-black hair dye to cover gray hair. Unfortunately, some of the dye is too dark it reinforces the impression of someone old enough. Especially if it is too dark, then the scalp hair thinning will be more visible contrast. As a result, instead look more "aged". In addition, the jet black color on the hair will make a shadow on the lined it more visible lining. It is recommended to use colors that are younger, tend to brown, around the face to make the face look brighter.

4. Too much

Trying to follow the trend of cut or hair color can also donate the age on your appearance. Not follow the trend of excessive is almost the same as using clothes that are too trendy or color make-up too thick and colorful. To avoid the appearance is too "old", try to continue to evolve with your style. For reference hairstyle for a 40-year-old, look at the style of Halle Berry or Susan Sarandon. Show your favorite haircut to the stylist. Bangs is also one of the tricks to make you look younger and style. Ask your stylist to create a full bangs, no responsibility or only slightly (to make the appearance look old). Or, select the bangs that can be thrown to the side. However, avoid bangs cut if your hair is curly or wavy.

Tips to Make Shiny Hair Quickly and Fastest

2011-06-30T20:01:00.004+07:00

Who does not feel uncomfortable if her hair looks shabby and disheveled? Especially women who are very concerned with her appearance in public. Women will use a variety of ways to make hair look fashionable, beautiful, natural, perfect, and shiny of course. Well, how North make our hair look naturally shiny? Now there are many beauty products to make hair shiny. There are also many advanced tools such as SPA, Cream bath or the other. To be more stable again, here are some tips to care for shiny hair:

1. Prevention of branched hair. The tips are twisted hair with a towel when drying my hair, and do not get used ran hard. Because this can make hair easily damaged when wet.

2. Using fingers to comb our hair. In this way we can know whether the hair has been damaged. When we comb the hair with your fingers tangled hair will be captured automatically. When this happens, the hair care needs.

3. Trying to soak the hair in water. In this way we can know whether the hair in good health or is damaged. When the float so healthy hair can be said, and if it sinks then the hair has been damaged.

4. Use more conditioner to get maximum results. Do not take a long time when we wear our hair conditioner on. Approximately 5-20 minutes then the conditioner will be absorbed completely in our hair. After that the hair can be rinsed clean.

Other important things to note about the hair is to use shampoo. In the shampoo there is something called mikrosilikon who worked as coating the hair shaft. When shampooing, it serves as a protective mikrosilikon hair shaft of sunlight, air pollution, and free radicals. In addition to shampoo, use of serum also give effect to the hair. Moisture and nutrients your hair will be fulfilled, but it can make hair brittle and shiny.

After providing the above tips, there is still one more tips for hair to shine in the traditional way. Following its traditional style tips:

1. Preparing the material is a mixture of one tablespoon of honey with four cups of warm water.

2. After shampooing, the above recipe can be used in a way wiped the hair evenly. To obtain maximum results, you can do it regularly.

That was a few tips from me to make the hair look shiny. Hope can be useful and you can get shiny hair according to your dreams.

Greasy Hair Solutions and saucer!

2011-06-30T19:50:00.000+07:00

Oily hair. A little oil on the hair that's normal because it is necessary to keep the hair shaft in good condition.

Too much oil can make your hair look dirty and not expand.

If your head hair and oily skin you should not use a shampoo or hair conditioner or drugs that are too heavy for your hair.

If only the scalp is oily then use a shampoo for oily hair and conditioner for dry hair for balance. Do not just use a hair drug.

You can wash your hair every other day. You may want to wash your hair but the oil glands in the scalp massage can terstimulir effect so that more frequent washing of hair, the scalp becomes more oily.

Overcoming Hair Loss Tips

2011-06-30T18:42:00.000+07:00

Hair is your crown. Nobody feels happy when her hair fell out. Some hair loss is natural, because the process of aging-related genes that make some hair disappear programmatically. Some others do not experience hair loss, due to improper hair treatments. Broadly speaking, hair loss is caused by two factors: hereditary factors or hereditary and acquired factors. Loss due to heredity is not much to do but prevent the loss does not take place quickly. While the factors obtained, there is a caused by the disease and there is also the fault of the hair treatment. Through three stages of hair loss. First is alopecia areata, a condition when the immune system starts attacking the hair root. The second stage is total alopecia, when the hair begins to experience hair loss begins from the scalp. The third stage is a universal alopecia, when a person loses all the hair from his body.

From a research note that there are many factors that can cause hair loss, including:

Here are some common causes of hair loss, namely:

Caused by infection, some diseases and the use of postoperative medications such as diabetes, thyroid disease, chemotherapy.
Caused by genetic factors
Caused by abnormalities in the immune system such as disease Alopecia areata, androgenic alopecia which causes baldness.
Due to hormonal imbalance in the body such as during menopause, after childbirth, use of contraception like birth control pills.
Excessive stress or anxiety
Since suffering a particular disease
The existence of head injuries
The use shampoo that does not match the skin's hair, etc..

There are many tips to cope with hair loss as well as care and beautify your hair that you can learn and apply in accordance with the needs of your hair. Here are some easy tips to cope with hair loss that you can do yourself at home:

Combing and brushing hair. Combing and brushing your hair every day not just tidying and cleaning the hair, but also improve blood supply to activate the activity of cells of the scalp. Use a comb with wide-spaced teeth and a fluffy brush
Shampoo made from natural

Never use a shampoo containing chemicals, or straighten hair or dry hair with a hair dryer.

Use a conditioner. Use of a conditioner after shampooing to reduce the effort needed to fix my hair and make it easier to manage. The use of conditioner is especially necessary if your hair is dry.
Dry your wet hair and do not rub your hair too hard with a towel. When hair is wet, its structure is more fragile and should be avoided combing or brushing too hard.
Vary the style of hair. If you wear hair styles that require a pull on the hair should be interspersed with looser hairstyles to avoid causing the tension constant pull of the follicle so the hair loss.
Watch what you eat

Vitamin A, B, C and E are vital for new hair growth. Therefore rajinlah eating foods rich in vitamin tersebut.Jangan four obsessed with hair problems. Do not touch or pull the hair constantly.

Avoid stress because stress will disturb the metabolism of the body that receive the effects to the hair as well.
Do not wear a wig. The use wig should be avoided because it makes your scalp can not breathe properly and strangle your follicles limp. Veil, helmet, or hat does not damage your hair like wigs, provided careful when wearing and release it.
Avoid direct contact between the hair with the sun. According to a research note that the Ultra Violet rays can damage the scalp and prevent the growth of healthy hair.
Eat nutritious foods especially those that contain lots of protein and iron. Protein is essential for the growth of organs including the hair. The main source of protein derived from fish, eggs, nuts, yogurt, soy and others.
Avoid using hair care products such as shampoo, conditioner, toning, hairspray, gel, etc. that contain too many chemicals. The content of existing chemicals in these products can cause damage and loss of hair. To cope with hair loss, you should choose products that are derived from natural ingredients and herbs.
To cope with hair loss, change your habits in the hair washing or shampooing as follows:

Avoid shampooing using water that is too hot
Avoid shampooing more than 2x a week. Use a gentle shampoo and not too hard.
Do not comb your hair back (inverted) or combing hair too hard because it will most likely cause your hair to fall out. Use a good quality comb.
Massage the scalp thoroughly for 10-15 minutes after shampooing. This is to help stimulate blood circulation and strengthens the hair roots.
Massage the scalp thoroughly for 10-15 minutes after shampooing. This is to help stimulate blood circulation and strengthens the hair roots.

Growing Long Hair Tips

2011-06-29T16:10:00.000+07:00

Has a long and beautiful hair is every woman's dream. The women use a variety of ways to achieve beautiful hair, long, and looks natural. Generally, the hair will grow a length of 1.5 cm per month. And there's also grow more slowly, at last a long time suddenly broken. Not easy to make hair grow long fast. We can work around this by maximizing hair growth. Maybe we have been doing a lot of ways to grow hair faster but still failed. Here are some tips for growing hair longer and faster:

Eliminating Edge Damaged Hair

If the ends of the hair is damaged, it will propagate into the hair shaft. This can cause the hair shaft were damaged if not treated. Finally, new hair will grow also become damaged. We can prevent this by way of a haircut every 8-10 weeks. Ask the hair cutter to trim the ends of the hair because it's part, the hair is dry and cracked. Hair cutting is difficult to detect the broken ends of your hair when wet, so she cut it dry.

Pamper Hair

According to dermatologist from San Francisco, Paradi Mirmirani, moisturizing shea butter or avocado oil to keep the hair moist. This is key to hair growth to be long, because before long grow hair that can be branched and brittle fracture. Long hair is hair that old, you must treat it with caution because this is the kind that tend to brittle. Choose a gentle shampoo with moisturizer. If accustomed to using a hairdryer, vise and so overcome with application of conditioner and serum to the hair shaft without a rinse after shampooing. But not exposed to the scalp because it may cause dandruff. This is to keep the hair from the high temperature. In addition, grooming is also important. Do not get your hair with tight binding, because it can make hair quickly broken.

Streamlining the flow of blood in the head

To stimulate hair growth try to increase blood flow in the head so that the supply of nutrients into the area more hair.

- Massaging the head with a gentle regularly with fingers for 2 minutes before showering. It is recommended you do when the head in wet conditions or when shampooing

- Subduing head and gently brush the hair from root to tip your hair before bed.

- Or get exercises that strengthen the heart, such as aerobics and jogging. This activity will stimulate the heart to pump blood faster around your body so that nutrients reach the hair root area more quickly.

Let Scalp Breathing

When our hair is continuously closed it will cause a buildup of dirt and sweat and hair roots can not breathe. To overcome this shampooing with a gentle shampoo is the right thing. this will keep the head clean and free of dandruff. In addition we must also consider the cleanliness of the makeup like a comb and hairbrush. Because if dirty then it accumulates more dirt on us every time combing hair.

You should also avoid stress, because this can also cause disruption of hair growth. Overcome with meditation or other relaxation activities. In addition, sleep and rest also affects the speed of hair dye to grow. It takes time for 7-9 hours so that hair can grow quickly. Not difficult not to get healthy long hair quickly? As long as you run the tips, the possibility of long hair is not a dream anymore. Good luck!

Recipes Tauco

2011-01-18T22:47:00.001+07:00

Material:
a. 150 grams of brown sugar

b. Kitchen salt 100 grams

c. Cook ½ liter of water d. Dried soybeans ½ kg

Directions:

1. Material is cleaned, skin and then soaked in water overnight.
2. After that soak the glutinous rice flour and flour with a ratio of 1:1 and mixed with the material before and ditapai d for 3 days, after a fungus and jemurlah until dry.
3. Boiled water mixed with salt and then the material was soaked in water to be melted for ± 10 days.
4. The latter intervention materials that have a finely sliced.

Quick Ketchup Recipe

2011-01-18T22:47:00.000+07:00

Material:

a. 2 kg of black soybeans
b. palm sugar 5 kg
c. 2.5 kg salt
d. clean water to taste

Marinade:
1. red onion 4 ounces
2. 2 oz Garlic
3. Onions 3 stalks Serai
4. Kiem-ciam-peekaa 4 ounces
5. 2 kg of black sesame

Method:

1.soy beans ½ digongso until charred.

2.Then mashed with palm sugar, salt, and spices.

3.After that strain the rice sieve, after soft boiled with water to taste.

4.Condensed and whether or not our taste.

5.After boiling and filtered according to our taste with a soft cloth.

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Meat Tripe Cleaning Tips

2010-03-21T17:46:00.000+07:00

For you fans of tripe soup, would often have difficulties when cleaning the meat babatnya. There are practical ways you can participate, before being washed, smeared with tripe surface water whiting. After settling for 15 minutes evenly scrape with a knife, black hairs on beef tripe with ease will disappear and become white. Rinse with clean water, safe cooking beef tripe and your enjoyment.

Ways to Overcome Stage Fever

2010-03-03T20:19:00.000+07:00

Stage fright, as the name suggests, we are often faced with audiences, but a sudden shyness can also produce the same reaction. Stage fright effects can be reduced with an understanding of what is happening in your body, and learn to control fear with relaxation techniques and mental preparation. Here will be given 6 Tips to overcome stage fright.
1. Close your eyes and breathing deeply, imagine you're in a situation that causes the fever stage. Now, visualize yourself to control the situation with calm and confidence. People around you admire the ability you stay calm in these situations.
2. Train always your presentation or appearance. Use various methods of preparation. For example, practice in front of the glass, in front of friends or family, and your training records on tape or video.

3. Supports external memory with the help of external assistance. Write down the points or make the principal index cards or make a presentation framework. Do not be ashamed for using the help of visual clues. Even penontnn will assess how you organize the presentation and also you will get benefit for example, when meluakan anything, you just need to see the records.

4. Smile and speak with one of the audience before performing on stage. And while being on stage, look at the faces of individuals and talk direct to one person at a time, it's better than the ocean view audience.

5. If you can generate a laugh without having to try hard, you will make the audience relax. Everybody likes to laugh spontaneously. When making your audience feel comfortable with laughter, herbal medicine will also get the positive energy of their laughter.

6. Always talk about what your strengths. If you have background knowledge of what will be discussed, you will feel more comfortable present. You will rely on their own experience and provide anecdotes that reinforce your message.

Traditional Allergy Cures

2010-02-26T20:15:00.000+07:00

Allergy is a disease caused by not fitting the body or organ with the environment or food intake menu. For example, allergy to fish or salted fish or certain vegetables cause itching, swelling, vomiting or coughing.

Treatment:

Remedy 1
. Eating quail eggs three to five grains a day.

Potion 2
. 9 pieces of betel leaf
. 2 pieces bengkle

How:
Both materials finely ground and added a little eucalyptus oil, apply on the affected part.
Avoid food or a place that causes the allergy.

Egg Noodles Recipe

2010-02-16T17:32:00.000+07:00

Material:

a. 6 pieces of chicken eggs
b. 1.5 kg of wheat flour
c. Water kie / warm water to taste
d. Yellow dye / teres taste
e. Ssecukupnya salt
f. MSG / moto taste

Directions:
1. Chicken eggs beaten until fluffy and enter a little flour into the egg mixture.

2. Then the water kie included in the mixture and then knead the mixture until a dough cake.

3. Then the mixture thinned and sliced into small and elongated like a noodle.

4. After this material was put into boiling water while in the mix until about 5 minutes then let the noodles taken with the filter water is not lifted. Then the dried noodles to dry.

Ways of making soy milk

2010-02-08T21:12:00.000+07:00

Compared with tempeh and tofu making, the manufacture of soy milk a lot easier. This product can be made with the technology and equipment is very simple and requires no special skills. Therefore, this product can be made in the scale of households for their own needs. In summary, the way of making soy milk is as follows.

1. Wash the soybeans until they are clean of any debris and then soak it in boiling water that has been supplemented with 0.05% sodium bicarbonate. Poaching is done until soy soft (about 15 minutes).

2. Soybean cooled, peeled milled with a blender, and dicapur with hot water (and water ratio is 1:8 soybean) to form crushed soybean slurry resembles fine. The result is then filtered. Number of water added will affect the final product protein content.

3. The milk is obtained and then added with sugar. The amount of sugar added rekitar usually 5-7% by weight of the milk so that it can increase the value of energy and give it a little sweet. For more interesting tastes of children, the addition of sugar can be increased up to 10% for taste sweeter. In addition to sugar, can also add a sense of power (such as vanilla, cocoa, and pandan leaf) to cover the unpleasant odor.

4. Milk is then sterilized (heated) subs 15 minutes, stirring constantly to avoid burning and prevent the color brown. In hot conditions, soy milk is immediately bottled, canned, or put into sterile boxes of cardboard. Soy milk can be drunk directly, such as fresh milk, stored in the refrigerator, and made yogurt. How to make it similar to making yogurt from cows milk, but skim milk added to increase viscosity, aroma, acidity, protein, and reduces unpleasant odors.

Tips for Guiding Children

2010-02-06T14:51:00.000+07:00

Preparing childhood as the most beautiful and happy, preparation period so that later they can menyusuaikan themselves and exist in its environment will not be easy. There is art in itself. Limitations of reasoning, comprehension, her innocence requires the media to translate what we want. Educate them through daily events more easily digested and felt by the children. The expression of attention and your affection on their word not with language but with the language of love. There are a few tips for raising children well. As expressed by the Charles Schaefer in his idea that is named "Instinct Parents in educating CHILD".

1. Take Care children with love. Love is love that underlies everything, give it and let them know and feel. Horn, a psychologist said: "People who experience lack of love in which a child will feel happy, and tend to develop negative attitudes which the adult". Love itself includes 2 kompenen unified.
2. The need for affection. Needs of children will be physical contact with their parents like hugged, kissed and caressed. The need for maintenance is reflected in the child needs to be helped, protected, guided also given encouragement.
3. Be assertive. Excessive love that tails will say yes all the kids can actually hinder the process of self-reliance should also be firm. Reprimand was necessary whenever appropriate, sanctions are too firmly fixed as needed. Tente only in levels of teaching, educating, and avoiding falling hand. Telling study room, canceling a picnic, or postpone buying new shoes, it seems more effective to state that they are guilty and we are disappointed by the naughty.

4. Spend more time for children. Parents should provide a special time to play with kids, teaching and listening to them. Let parents arrange a schedule of activities involving parents and children. Make dinner together as well as an arena for conversation and family discussions.
5. Create a healthy marriage. Harmonious relationship between the father and mother is a crucial factor for the development and psychological growth of children. A mother said "a harmonious couples usually have a happy child."
6. Help your child to become good adults. Child should begin to be taught about good manners from an early age, pahamkan that he is not a rigid attitude or simply a collection of norms, the language of polite or orderly movement but one who is sincere concern for others.

Defining the Dream of Higher Education

2010-02-05T15:22:00.000+07:00

The first time I could think about "Defining Higher Education Dream" as a blog contest UII is a favorite of prestigious universities and many students are very interested in class XII. Even so wanted to go to university dream that must be defended-Stand up for learning continues in class XII. If you see a class XII student behavior, can be seen from their faces visible bags under their eyes. Always diligent in working on school assignments. Maybe when classes XI bit fat in his class XII to be somewhat kurusan. Can not play when the late afternoon because they have to participate Bimbel even more extreme case can not be nights weekly. Various suffering child had to be undertaken because of the class XII want to pass the National Exam and enter the Best College for them. Remember the adage, "berakit first-rafts swimming then, be sick before having sengang later."

Indeed all things there must be sacrifices if you want to succeed.Back again to XII class sessions, talk about class because now new writers XII XII class as well. Therefore I know exactly all the joys and sorrows graders XII. In this class is more felt different than any other grade. So many activities that must be lived from the beginning of the semester until graduation. For example, the school has a policy of repeated early hour to-0 that usually begins at 6:10. Since the distance of my house to school nearly 20 miles, I had a back Stand up at 4:30, and departed at 06:30. Remember, all this for the sake of passing the national exam and university entrance craving. Here's some of the joys and sorrows into the class XII students.

A dream if could go to college as desired. It should be through a dream that I can have wishful thinking about my future. According to you, are same desired college with a desirable or favorite college? It was not important, the most important thing that can go to college can bring us into a job that can support us and the family later. What good can go to college after graduating tervavorit but also unemployed. We went to college for employment use it. We could hang our dreams to the skies in order to enter public universities favorite. But back again back again to us in selecting and determining the appropriate department our talent. In terms of choosing might have a few parents who arbitrarily require that children enter the desired direction without seeing the parents' interests and talents of children. Actually it would lecture his parents or his son? Let's say a father who forced his son to go to the General Medical who like his father. But the child is more interested in other Juran, eg IT. What happens then if not this alignment occurs. Children could be frustrated by this. Indeed, every parent wants his future to become successful, wealthy and respected. "You have to be a doctor ..., insyinyur ..., or whatever." That's some polemical issues when choosing a college. Hala is not completed as such, children have the right to vote. And parents should understand that.

No less important is the matter of cost. Actually all the things that already diniati always a way. There is a will of 'there is a way, there is a willingness there is a way. God is always there to help us. Maybe people like me think that the village had graduated high school should look for work or perhaps even marry. Hah! What's crazy? Of course not, we are educated and educated people would not think it is shallow. If it's going to marry, the future wife would be given to eat what? Work just is not right? If we as Indonesian students are educated and accomplished but there is no cost, in fact many scholarships are waiting. And many school bond department toll-free.It was almost all state universities have scholarship. I understand for us who escaped PMDK be applying for a scholarship at the university through the Bureau of Student Affairs. The year 2010 may be a golden year for students who can not afford but doing well in class.This is because the Ministry of National Education and Religious Affairs held a scholarship Shutter MISSION. State colleges and universities that terpilihh BHMN will provide full scholarships to students who can pass the entrance leawat PMDK lane, SNMPTN, SNCA Diploma Rp. 5,000,000.00 / Semester. Not a dream anymore for our poor to go to college anymore. Not always it must pay tuition.Even better school bond department, we are freed during the course fee. Even get a monthly allowance.

Besides PMDK, there is another path to enter a university. SNMPTN Through this we have to compete with hundreds or thousands of other participants. From several tens of thousands was just taken it.Try to imagine, so many other rivals to go to college favorite. The most loved of late is the Guidance and Counseling, IT including PGSD. Do not know why these majors can be up to thousands of competitors. Not anymore as before, be a teacher is rare because so few devotees. To the extent that time so many scholarships offered to become a teacher. Another case for now, teachers' salaries can now be increased to twice the starting salary. Of course, should teachers who are qualified and passed the certification. No doubt if many participants are now flooding the majors this. Honestly, I will for the first choice FKU, PGSD second choice, and third choice of IT.Should really try and learn to be acceptable in the majors.

Actually there are many other universities in addition to UNS.Yogyakarta as student city has dozens of well-established universities and potential. As UGM, UII, UNY, in St. Louis, UAD, etc..For you, the university where the university favorites and dreams?

Treat Anti-Inflammatory / Inflammation

2010-02-04T16:39:00.000+07:00

Inflammatory disease often occurs in the throat, lungs, intestines, tonsils, skin, etc..

Materials and Methods of Construction:
50 grams of turmeric mango 1 / 2 teaspoon fennel, 3 cloves, dry beans, brown sugar to taste.

How to Make it as follows:
Turmeric washed and sliced thinly and then boiled with other ingredients and 4 cups water for 1 / 4 hours.

Drink:
- For the prevention of 1 cup per day.
- To cure drink 3x daily morning, afternoon and evening.

Yellow Rice Recipe

2010-02-02T19:01:00.000+07:00

Material: a. Rice 1 kg b. Coconut 1 seed c. Bay leaves 4 sheets d. Turmeric three ros e. 1 clove garlic f. Salt sckpnya g. Water 1 liter
Directions:

1. Turmeric burn, then shredded along your palm.
2. Then given one liter of water and squeezed the water, so the coconut milk yellow.
3. Rice steamed until half cooked.
4. Yellow coconut milk to boil over boiled rice jemudian inserted into coconut milk.
5. Enter the bay leaves, salt and crushed garlic into the stew over rice.
6. After the dried coconut milk, lower the flame.
7. And then steamed until the rice is cooked.
8. Dg Serve sambal fried, shredded fish, eggs, fried tempe and dry the cucumber salad.

Traditional ways Treating Heart Disease

2010-02-01T21:05:00.000+07:00

Heart disease due to a profound sense of the depressed feeling offended, too bad / tired.

Common symptoms:
1. Face looked pale.
2. Hands and feet feel cold.
3. Chest feels tight spot.
4. Heart felt spasms and horror.
Sometimes it feels too on his back, arms and shoulders.

Recommendation:
1. Lay the patient with a good, loosen tight clothing.
2. Wipe chest pain and leg with a bottle filled with hot water.
3. Blanket with a thick cloth.

How is it treated:
Take three carrots that are fresh, wash with clean water, to be shredded. Squeeze and strain the water grab. Give two tablespoons of pure honey, mix and drink. Do it 3 times a day until healed.

Traditional way of curing acne

2010-02-01T00:22:00.000+07:00

Acne is caused by several things / reasons:

1. Meal containing fat
2. Lack of sleep / rest
3. Because dust / sun, mind depressed / longing.

Common symptoms:
1. There are small bumps on the face.
2. The pain, sometimes feels itchy pain.

Healing:
1. Brown rice flour 1 / 4 liter.
2. Bengkoang starch flour 2 oz.
3. Cinnamon 1 / 4 ounce.
4. Kencur 1 / 4 ounce, klabet a teaspoon.
5. Betel nuts 2 seed, one teaspoon fennel.

Treating Cough Dengue Traditional ways

2010-01-31T21:00:00.000+07:00

Coughing up blood caused by inflammation of the lungs, while the disease itself is caused by the germs of tuberculosis. The disease is easily transmitted to dg clothes, even by air from breathing person / patient directly.
Early symptoms:
a. It felt shortness of breath
b. Less appetite
c. Body temperature rose to 41 degrees Celsius over.
e. Pallor and sweating at night.

Should:
a. Rest elbow and quiet
b. Breathe in the fresh and clean reply
c. Nutritious and fresh foods.

Treatment:
Take turmeric, kencur taste, wash with water after the peel, beat with the smooth. Squeeze and increase the boiling water boil the waste can be added with sugar or sugar cubes when cool to drink half a glass of morning and afternoon, drink repeatedly.

Lemonade Recipe, Temu lawak

2010-01-29T15:38:00.000+07:00

Material:
a. Acid Citrun 2 teaspoons
b. Mineral soda 2 teaspoons
c. Esence fruit 4 cc
d. Kesumba yellow color to taste
e. 2 bottles of water ginger lemonade
f. Sugar to taste

Description:
1. Ginger peeled and cut into small pieces and hold sun to dry.

2. Prepare 2 liters of water to boil 20 grams of dried ginger which has been boiling water shrinkage to about 1 liter.

Directions:
1. Sugar, fruit esence, kesumba yellow ginger and water put together until dissolved.

2. After a rather cold mineral acid and soda Citrun rolled into one.

Treating High Blood Pressure Traditional ways

2010-01-25T17:29:00.000+07:00

If a person is his blood pressure was measured with tensimeter show number above 140 mm Hg. High blood pressure is that all of a sudden, though a few moments or a few days otherwise normal. High blood pressure is suddenly high blood pressure is called essential. While the blood pressure to a known cause of blood pressure is called secondary.
Cause:
a. Kidney disease
b. The use of chemical drugs
c. Heart trouble
d. Because of hereditary factors
e. Because of harsh environmental influences
Early signs: a. Always dizziness and headaches b. A sense of fatigue and stiff neck c. Bewildered ear buzzing d. Pounding heart rate was fast. Chronic hypertension is usually followed by other diseases, such as rheumatic disease, high cholesterol, diabetes and so on.
Treatment: a. Avoid tension of living. b. Abstaining from eating meat goat, durian, let alone alcohol. c. Avoid salty foods, coffee, and smoking. d. Many-many are eating vegetables, fruits.

Treatment:
1. Take 5 celery stalks, wash with water, mashed plus a glass of water and filtered, can be taken 2 times a day, do two or three days.
2. Take the grated radish and take the water is filtered and can be drunk in the morning and afternoon.
3. Grated turmeric and strained to take the water added sugar or rock sugar, honey bees can also be with the original, drink morning and evening.
4. Pace the ripe fruit is squeezed and filtered water is added with honey, drink morning and evening.

Recipes Lemonade and Fanta, Coca cola, Sprite

2010-01-24T21:38:00.000+07:00

Material:
a. Cooking water and 2 bottles
b. Esence lemonade, Fanta, Coca Cola 4 cc
c. Acid Citrun 2 teaspoons
d. Mineral soda 2 teaspoons
e. Sugar / sweet juice to taste
f. Kesumba color taste

Directions:
1. Cooking water and sugar rolled into one.
2. After the sugar dissolves in water to cook, enter kesumba esence and color.
3. Then enter Citrun acid and mineral soda if water is cold.

Description:
1. Esence: flavorings / taste maker for such fruit.
2. Citrun acid: acid taste like white sugar.
3. Mineral soda: soda for baking powder (flour)

Recipes Tengkleng Goat / Chicken

2010-01-24T00:40:00.000+07:00

Material:
a. Goat ribs / chicken 1 / 2 kg
b. Red onion 2 cloves
c. 3 cloves garlic
d. 1 teaspoon pepper
e. Nutmeg half seeds
f. Tumbar 1 teaspoon
g. 4 cumin seeds
h. 1 vertebra Laos
i. Bay leaves 2 pieces
j. Lemongrass leaves 1 sheet
k. Ginger 1 vertebra
l. Turmeric 2 segment
m. Cayenne pepper 5 seeds
n. Red chili 2 seed
o. Thick coconut milk 1 liter
p. Palm sugar

Directions:
1. Chopped red onion.

2. Garlic, pepper, nutmeg, tumbar, cumin, red pepper, cayenne pepper ground together.

3. Red onion sauteed medium rare cooking oil dg.

4. Ingredients 2 digongso until fragrant.

5. Bones are boiled until soft, then seasoning distinguished digongso (4) inserted.

6. Enter the coconut milk in a stew bone in the upper.

7. Bay leaf, lemongrass leaf tied together, enter dg laos and ginger together.

8. After boiling taste, add salt or Ajinomoto if less.

9. Tengkleng ready to be served

Syrup Prescription Puder / NutriSari

2010-01-23T15:07:00.000+07:00

Material:
a. Raspberry / vanilla taste

b. Kesumba color taste

c. Flour granulated sugar 1 / 2 kg

d. Hot water 20 cc

e. Citrun Acid 20 grams

Description:

1. Citrun acid dissolved in hot water, so that later when mixed with sugar dg be mixed, and this mixture do not get wet.

Directions:

1. Kesumba raspberry mixed with color, hot water, acid Citrun until blended.
2. When finished mix flour with the sugar mixture until evenly distributed over the right in a way little by little.

Traditional How to Treat Cancer

2010-01-22T13:20:00.000+07:00

Cancer in this sense can be connected with the tumor. Tumor cells are growing out of control, this is a reasonable tumor, or lump that remains undeveloped. Medical terms is called a benign tumor. If the lump is growing and uncontrolled, and it can grow anywhere, it will destroy other cells, according to medical science called malignant tumors, commonly known as cancer. These cancers can grow anywhere in the neck, nose, mouth, even in the intestines, or in the upper heart.

The signs:
a. Wound or sore that never healed
b. Abnormal bleeding
c. Bumps in the breast, or elsewhere
d. Disturbed appetite, as well as digestive

Advice to patients:
a. Eat vegetables and fruits which many
b. Bathe regularly and clean
c. Do not be callous negative but closer to Him

Treatment:
a. Take the leaves, flowers kemladean (parasite), wash with clean water and boiled with water about 3 cups, until boiling. After a cold to drink with added pure bee honey.

b. Take a leaf Cermai young, young leaves of papaya, starfruit leaves young. Its size is comparable to three handfuls of hand. After being washed with clean boiled water for approximately 3 cups. After boiling and cooling dapatt plus honey taken with the original taste. Once drinking half a glass of morning and afternoon.

c. Fresh grated carrots and filtered pure honey can be added.

d. If there are no such materials at least not to drink pure honey in the morning and afternoon / evening, each taking one tablespoon. Try hopefully recover quickly.

Treating Diabetes or Diabetes Traditional mode

2010-01-21T15:32:00.000+07:00

Diabetes is a disease of sugar or diabetes, the disease may lead to weakness of the sufferer, even lets patients do not have offspring.
The signs:
a. Body weakness, drowsiness
b. Body feels sore, pains and uncertain
c. Dispose of urine is not smooth
d. If it difficult to heal wounds

Recommendation:
a. Precepts eat sugar, meat, salt, alcoholic beverages.
b. Regular moderate exercise.
c. Foods that contain lots of vegetables.

Treatment:
1. Take the bay leaves to taste, wash thoroughly with clean water. Boil until boiling, filtered with a cloth when it's cool to be drunk in the morning and afternoon.
2. Take eggplant Java (which are round) use for vegetables with rice. Eat in the morning and afternoon repeatedly.
3. Seeds are dried and fried mauni no oil (cooking partner) beat fine, powder can be made in lieu of coffee beverages. Apply morning and evening regularly.
4. Petai China (kemetir / melandingan) seeds are still young can be used as vegetables to eat. Perform regular afternoon and evening, to recover.
5. Potatoes boiled without salt, after the cook can be eaten in place of rice. Do it repeatedly for full recovery.

Treating Stomach Bloating

2010-01-19T14:45:00.000+07:00

Flatulence can be caused partly because of rain, soaking in water for too long.
Healing:
a. Take 2 pieces of the young papaya leaves and salt to taste. Papaya leaves until finely ground, given the necessary water and squeezed. Lemon water with salt, then drink mix evenly.

b. Prepare the rock sugar to taste, lime juice, hot tea water. All the ingredients are mixed into one mix evenly.

Usage: Taken once finished in warm.

Traditional way of treating tonsil

2010-01-18T21:34:00.000+07:00

Symptoms of thyroid disease as follows:
1. Pain when swallowing food.
2. Body feels weak and tired.
3. Turned into a raspy voice sometimes difficult to speak.
4. Webbed tongue, smelly breath.
5. Fever and body temperature rises.

Treatment: Take the cat's whiskers leaves 3 / 4, handheld / rinse to clean, boil with 3 cups water, and leave half of the stew. Strain and put in a glass, drink it three times in a routine and a half cups until healed.

Treating Lung Inflammation

2010-01-13T15:48:00.000+07:00

Pneumonia is usually a chance to attack diseased, salesma / bronchitis, especially winter.
Treatment:

1. Take patikan leaf buffalo, one handheld. Wash and boil with 3 cups of water, after boiling lift and after cold potable, drink half a glass of morning and afternoon.

2. Take starfruit leaves, if there is fruit of five seeds, shredded and take water can be added with honey to taste to drink morning and evening to recover.

Treat Hand, Foot Swelling

2010-01-12T18:02:00.000+07:00

Either swollen feet or hands can be due to impact by hard objects or sprained, can be treated with:

a. Compressed with warm water
b. Smeared with coconut oil
c. Abu kitchen still warm wrapped in cloth and glue and pressed until warm. Do it again and again, when his ashes are cool to be replaced new.

Please note, if the swelling is due to fall predicted fractures or cracks should carefully take it to the experts.

Treat Traditional Beri-beri

2010-01-12T16:44:00.000+07:00

Beri-beri disease caused by lack of vitamins that are consumed by patients. The more vitamin B.
The signs:
a. Patients feel the thrill, often surprised.
b. Agency increasingly weak
c. Feet swell, when massaged can not return
d. Can lead to paralysis.

Treatment:
1. a. Katul rice taste.
b. Remujung leaves, to taste. After they cleaned / washed boiled until cooked and can be drunk two or three times a day.

2. Eating brown rice is still new and many katulnya, drinking / eating porridge of green beans a lot.

Treating Asthma In Children

2010-01-10T07:16:00.000+07:00

Coughing is very torturing children, especially at night.
Treatment: . Eight or nine pieces of betel leaf. . Rock sugar or palm sugar if necessary.
How: Boil in two cups water to boiling. Chill until lukewarm and drink morning and evening approximately one week.

Treating Asthma In Traditional

2010-01-10T07:09:00.000+07:00

Asthma is a disease caused by disruption in breathing apparatus such as throat swelling or wrinkled, so disturbed or shortness of breath, even breath sometimes wheezing. Asthma can be caused by:
1. Descent or innateness.
2. Dusty environments, smoke, etc..
3. The existence of organs associated with breathing is disturbed, fall out of joint or neurological abnormalities.

Treatment:
Potion 1. Cone-shaped leaves and flowers are dried and chopped built like klobot, then turned on as we smoke, the smoke is sucked tight over and over until it heals.

Potion 2 . Nginang (eat the betel leaf) material two fresh betel leaves little gambier and supplemented with whiting. Performed in the morning or evening.

Biduren In Traditional Cures

2010-01-09T16:05:00.000+07:00

Biduren is a disease that attacks a person, because the resistance is less strong person. Partly because of gross blood digestion less than perfect. As a result, in addition to itchy spots also are evenly Recommendation:
a. Drinking herbal dialysis
b. Maintain environmental hygiene, clothing or body
c. Eat nutritious foods
d. Keeping the body do not get tired (diforsir)

Treatment: Take kencur, tamarind, turmeric to taste. Clean with water, the three-soft finely ground plus a bit of coconut oil, apply where the itching until healed.

In Traditional Cures Burns

2010-01-08T05:43:00.000+07:00

If any of us got injured due to fire or burns, it is necessary first aid, among others:
a. Take the shake-blend the egg whites until foamy and can be applied are subject to these burns.
b. Our young papaya fruit clean, and shredded for security or they will be wrapped in the wound.
c. Whiting and coconut oil is stirred sufficiently to be used to treat the wound.

Treating Diarrhea Traditional mode

2010-01-07T17:00:00.000+07:00

Diarrhea disease is easily spread quickly through the food or drink with water. Even the great plague if not promptly dealt with carefully.
Early signs:
a. Stomach ache-wrap, nausea
b. Watery stools and yellowish
c. Body temperature rises can also go down (not stable)

Treatment:
1. a) 2 tablespoons granulated sugar
b) 1 teaspoon salt. Both are brewed and drunk in the morning and afternoon
2. Take an old turmeric grated and kept clean filtered / squeezed a little water and salt plus a kitchen can be drunk in the morning and afternoon.
3. Take 5 pieces of guava leaf klutuk / clean guavas boiled can be added a little salt. Drink morning and evening.

Please note: Get used to drinking water that has been cooked, foods and beverages should be closed. The place should be clean from flies, cockroaches, and ants. Drink as much as possible so that our bodies hydrated. Foods should also be looked at carefully, stay away from foods that out loud, hot and too cold. Food porridge and lots of bitter tea.

Fried Chicken Recipe

2010-01-05T16:26:00.000+07:00

Material:
a. Chicken fried flour 1 / 4 kg
b. Egg whites 5 seeds
c. 1 kg chicken
d. Pepper powder 1 / 2 tablespoon
e. Cooking oil 1 / 2 tbsp
f. Tomato sauce to taste Seasonings: - Pepper 1 tbsp - Salt 1 tablespoon finely - Sweet Sauce 1 / 2 tbsp

Directions:
1. Chicken marinated in spices for 15 minutes then remove and let the water in the meat runs out, after that enter the egg whites then roll in the bamboo and the flour.
2. After that just fried until cooked.

Beef Meatball Recipe

2010-01-05T16:06:00.000+07:00

Material:
a. Ground beef mince 1.5 kg
b. Pepper to taste
c. 15 cloves garlic
d. Tapioca flour 1 / 2 kg
e. Salt to taste
f. Moto / MSG to taste

Directions:
1. Salt, merico, motto and shallot until finely ground.
2. Ground beef seasonings incorporated into it.
3. Then create the dots, put in a saucepan and boil until cooked.

Making Gravy:
a. Take 5 cloves of garlic mixed with pepper, 10 grains, and the salt to taste, the third ground material.
b. Take the sliced onions, then digongso with oil.
c. Take the onions wilt, seasoning (a) included, after smelling good, add one quart of water, add to taste Ajinomoto. d. Baksonya ready to be served with gravy.

Recipes Soto Java

2010-01-05T15:54:00.000+07:00

Material:
a. Pecan 12 seeds
b. Turmeric and ginger 4 slices
c. Onion and white 12 seeds
d. Loncang / celery 10 seeds
e. Tomato and Blimbing wuluh 5 seeds
f. Sere 3 pieces g. Beef and bones 4 kg

Directions:
1. Flesh and bones boiled until soft and oily (process a)
2. Bamboo as / dc finely ground and then fried with a little oil (process b)
3. Seasonings as / dc was inserted into the process a and b added ingredient d, e, f after new mature served.

Shrimp chips recipe

2010-01-04T17:06:00.000+07:00

Material:
a. 1 kg medium sized prawns
b. Flour / corn meal 1 kg
c. Chicken eggs 4 items
d. Sugar to taste
e. Kitchen salt to taste

Directions:
1. Shrimp that has been cleansed skin and head, until finely ground.
2. Flour made deeg (java: jladren) then shrimps collision included in deeg flour with eggs, then enter sugar and salt, stirring until blended.
3. Once evenly deeg created / printed form a long round, then steamed until cooked, when cooked and cool, then cut thinly. Then dried in the sun to dry.
4. When you want to served fried.

Tomato Sauce Recipe

2010-01-04T16:20:00.000+07:00

Material:
a. 5 grams sodium Acidum
b. Wheat flour 40 grams
c. 5 grams of sodium Cloratun
d. 1 cup water
e. 5 grams sugar
f. Tomato water 100 cc
g. The tomatoes are squeezed 5 grams

Directions:
1. Stewed tomatoes squeezed take water.
2. After that the material as / df mixed and then enter the tomato juice and then cooked, stirring frequently until smooth.
3. After boiling and mixture becomes thick cuts from the fire.
4. Once cool put in bottles and labeled as well as good cover.

Salted Egg Recipes Practical

2010-01-04T14:14:00.000+07:00

Material:
a. Abu pads 1 pack
b. Salt 1 / 4 kg
c. Eggs 5 eggs

Directions:
1. Ash and salt mixed together, add water until the ash becomes wet.
2. Egg dipped into the mixture of ash over seven days.
3. Eggs removed from the marinade, then washed and boiled for about 30 minutes.

Tape Cassava Recipes

2010-01-04T14:04:00.000+07:00

Material:
a. Water 1 liter
b. Cassava 2 kg
c. Yeast tape to taste The tools used: Cormorant, buckets, stoves, pipisan, winnowing.

Directions:
1. Cassava is peeled cut into pieces and washed clean.
2. Then cassava steamed in steamer until cooked, then cooled.
3. After the yeast was sprinkled with tape until mixed, then wrapped in banana leaf to the meeting, approximately two days, after it opened and can be enjoyed.

Syrup Recipes Oranges, Jackfruit

2010-01-03T16:46:00.000+07:00

Material:
a. Sugar / sweet cider 1 kg
b. Esence orange / jackfruit 10 cc
c. Kesumba color taste
d. 1 liter of clean water
e. 1 egg white f. Citrun Acid 20 grams

Directions:
1. Citrun granulated sugar and acid dissolved in water by boiling.
2. After a cold solution and enter the egg white, color and esence kesumba orange / jackfruit.
3. Prepare a filter to filter the mixture.

Cause Su'ul Khotimah

2009-12-28T18:40:00.000+07:00

Know, O thou most fortunate that su'ul Khotimah Insha Allah (the bad end of life) may not be experienced by people who constantly improve themselves, both physically and his mind with God Almighty, and always acted honestly, in both deeds and words, because This story never existed. However, su'ul Khotimah that would befall the people his inner conviction and outward deeds have been damaged, and all those who dare to boldly do major sins and usual playing around with crime or immorality, so all the bad deeds that will dominate himself, to get her death, before he had time to repent NASHUHA (real repentance).

Then, know also that su'ul Khotimah many causes. As for the many causes of the most urgent are:
1. Associating anything with Allah. The nature of associating partners with Allah is to drape the liver to other than Allah, whether in the form of love, fear, hope, prayer, trust, Inabah rehab centers(repentance), etc..

2. Doing heresy in religious matters. Bid'ah is invent a new thing that there is no guidance, either from Allah (the Quran) and the Messenger of Allah (Al-Hadith). Therefore, the perpetrators of heresy is not likely to be allowed to enjoy Husnul Khotimah. Especially if it turns out he was among those who are still working on sampaikannya act of heresy after the argument. We seek refuge in Allah from His abandoned like this.

3. Always dabbling in disobedience, disobedience, because he considered trivial and belittle his existence. Apakagi immoral-immoral if it included major sins, then all the bad deeds together Satan will abandon the culprit, until the seconds before his death.Where have gathered into one in a person, God has let him and his faith were also down, then he will dijerembabkan into su'ul Khotimah.

4. Make fun of religion Islam and its adherents, such as the clergy, missionary interpreters and people Salih, a light hand (rude) and say dirty words to them.

5. Dereliction of God Almighty and feel secure from Him adzab.

6. To do zholim. Kezholiman is a blossoming and berteduhnya (kemaksiatan-kemaksiatan. People do zholim are the ones leading the most deserves a su'ul Khotimah. We seek refuge in God from this day.

7. Associating with evil people (like thugs, criminals, etc.)

8. Ujub (pride). The nature of this trait is a sense of pride that people get attacked by the perpetrators when doing a practice is accompanied by low regard deeds done by others and feel most high when compared with them.

Here are some major causes su'ul Khotimah, because all that is base and source of all evil.
Therefore, should people who berakak longer guided truly away from and avoid the things above, in order to avoid su'ul Khotimah.

Teach Children to Read Early

2009-12-28T15:32:00.000+07:00

Teach children to read early on a lot of benefits. Clearly, the first increase children's intelligence. We remember, the most rapid brain development in aged 0-6 years. If at this age kids get more intellectual stimulation, the brain child will develop better. Children who used to read from an early age also tend to have the ability to think, communicate, and understand it better. Children who have the ability to write, in the sense of pouring in writing with a neat idea, generally also preceded by the habit of reading early on.
Here are some steps you can try to teach babies to read:

1. Start with a lap infant in a position that made him uncomfortable. Tell him reading activities to be performed. Then invite dialogue. Although babies can not speak, the baby will be more easily attracted when she feels involved. If he already feels comfortable, interested, and involved then the mother started to read books. Read in a voice loud enough and intonation changing as this will foster their interests.

2. Give a book that is suitable for babies. Read and show a lot of picture books and rich in color with a small number of words (no more than 300 words). Flashy colors or contrast will be very interesting baby's attention and interest.

3. Books are made of thick paper very suitable for babies because it is not easy to tear. Please note that the baby shows interest in books by way of holding the book, hitting hit her on the floor, biting, even pulling up to tear. We need to understand how a baby reading a book like this so we do not act reactive to it. For reactive measures will lead to the perception of parents reading to him that is something that is not fun. Currently in bookstores had sold many books that are made of heavy paper, unfortunately the price is still quite expensive and mostly imported books. If you want a little creative, we can create our own books for babies of cardboard shaped like a book and plastered the pictures interesting.

4. The content will give a great influence for the behavior, soul and mind of children. It is therefore important to pick books that it "nutritious" to the brain. Many books that are physically good but bad contents. The safest book containing the true story of a character who does not doubt his kindness. Once any way, we must consider how the story was written, because sometimes there are stories in which the author included the interpretation and thoughts.

5. In essence, any book may be read or given to babies as long as it good for the soul and mind. We do not need to wait until thick berkertas books priced. The books are made of thin paper that was good very good home contents is given and read to our babies.

Ways to Grow Child Empathy

2009-12-27T16:30:00.000+07:00

Empathy is a form of children's understanding of what others feel. Children who grow up with good will have empathy outgoing, clever relented, and helpful friend. That way he will be loved by his friends. The world thought the world of children is real and concrete. It's not something that just described in words. To train a sense of empathy, children should be reunited with condition right before her eyes, about life more miserable than himself. We can foster empathy in children's self for example by train:

1. Sensitive to the feelings of other children Parents should frequently talk to their children about the different kinds of feelings that are faced by other people. Say often as possible with the correct language. When the traffic lights to see a street child is being overheated, saying, "O Allah! Poor boy overheating. He was your age, but it must find its own money by selling newspapers."

2. I imagine if he is Invite your child to imagine that if he was suffering as he had seen. Rangkailah sentence that can arouse feelings of the child so that he could imagine it easily.

3. Sacrificing one's own practice Train the child to get used to give something of his own goods to another person really needs to be done. Instead of using money from the charity bag mother, better give children pocket money a little more, the records must set aside a certain percentage to charity. So they have been charitable with their own money.

4. Others happy When children begin to be set aside part of their holdings to someone else, complete the event with a good outcome. That showed them the consequences of his deeds. Show that their actions can make others happy.
ATTITUDE OF EMPATHY
If the child is successfully trained to cultivate the attitude of empathy, then the results will be obtained as follows:

. Children will be able to know and understand the emotions of others and sharing feelings with others.

. With empathy, children are forced to change the mindset rigid to be flexible. Or the selfish become tolerant. . With empathy children will understand that not all wishes can be fulfilled through other people.

. Children will be able to build relationships and be accepted by others.

. Children will be able to socialize and make friends with others.

. Children will have the initiative to help others who are in difficulties.

Tips for Choosing and Caring for Guitar

2009-12-25T06:57:00.000+07:00

At the beginning of musical instruments including luxury goods, but lately things have not become special again, many agencies or certain organizations, schools, even in families that already have these devices in full. However, due to a lack of experience in selecting and caring for guitar, often an obstacle or even after buying a guitar is not tested in accordance with the wishes. Below we try a variety of experiences on choosing a guitar and how to care for these devices.

This tool is most familiar in the community, from urban to rural, from adult to children. Many have been able to play this instrument with skill and good technical game. But many of those who just can play, in terms of their treatment much less understood.

Guitar brand choices are many considerations. For now many brands of guitars that circulated in Indonesia, both domestic and imported artificial child. Even classmates Squair and Cort guitars some already made in Indonesia, of course on the supervision of the manufacturer's original. To select this device there are a few tips to keep you try.

1. Once confident with the selected brand try it with some amplifiers that exist in the store, compare well with other brand guitars. Does the guitar sound is in conformity with the character you want, by shifting the existing switch. Usually the standard guitar, there are two knobs which consists of volume and treble and equipped with a tone switch (tone), when the pickup (spull) the number is four, the switch is even there are four. If convinced that the character of the guitar sound as you want and really feels familiar in your hands, please you pay for the guitar.

2. Some professionals say that the new guitar purchased from the new store be 80%, they
replace the pickup with a better quality with brands like DiMarzio, Seymour Duncan or Bartollini. As for the volume is replaced with a value of 500 kilo ohms. This guitar output to be great and will determine how much distortion levels that can be produced.

3. Guitar must be placed in the right places (booths guitar) this is to avoid the neck (handlebar) into a fast bend.

4. To replace remove string guitar strings begin the most slack, this is to avoid the neck which had been under pressure a very strong string, all of a sudden there is no pressure (neck not surprised).

5. Professional musicians replace string guitar / bass direct usually a set. This is to avoid uneven sound, if there is a new and old strings.

6. Finished playing do not forget to clean the strings with the string with cleaning fluid cleaning fluid strings. This is to avoid fast rusty strings.

Tips For Children Love Learning at Home

2009-12-24T14:19:00.000+07:00

The success of children in school must be supported by a learning atmosphere that is created at home. This is because at learning that the children endured at school not much longer with the time spent studying at home or outside school. In the USA for example, the children's school time is no more than 180 days in one year. And even then only takes about 9 hours each day. In Indonesia, the time to learn that served children in school and even much less because the cut off time of the semester, national and religious holiday, and also Sunday, so the practical number of school days about 240 days each year. That was the time spent each day just around between 2-6 hours each day. If it is assumed children spent 6 hours in school each day, equivalent to 60 days in a year when there are a total of 240 days of school, then the rest of the time outside of school. What is meant by studying at home means not only learn the theory from scientific books, but learning in a broader sense. Here's how to strive for the learning process at home with the kids still fun:

1. When children as young as pre-school, you as parents can transmit the preference learning by letting them see and hear you read. If necessary, invite them to visit the library. If they are able to read, no one made their own library card.

2. Provide a variety of stationery and drawing equipment at home to stimulate their creativity.

3. Get used to create the children engage in activities that benefit the development of their abilities, do not just give or dictate something to do.

4. Help your child to complete a job according to the phases of age and allow them to
try to do it themselves without your help if it is possible. Develop a rational attitude and mindset. Teach them also to be consistent with the schedule of completion of work or activity around the house. Buatllah schedule or planned activities at home with them if necessary. When the child was sitting in elementary school, accompany and assist them to complete homework from seknlah. For that, you need to convince meqeka that homework is an important element in the process of mastering a science, so it is important to always do my homework. Comfortable for children to learn at home, especially finish homework, give it a special place in the quiet house to study. That way, their achievements in school would be proud.

6 Kick-Faced Wife lascivious

2009-12-24T14:18:00.000+07:00

Generally the husband is complaining because of his work (such as professors and doctors), often when she went home and his wife claim that "one thing", he was overwhelmed to serve him. Not only that complaint. If the wife requests more than once to have sex, while the husband was age above 50 (on top of the head 5), how? Michelle Jordan has six tips for dealing wife who had a huge appetite.

1. Give Him Busyness Generally, lascivious wife because of the opposite sex / husband busy. While the possibility of the wife is not a career woman / worker, while he has no hobbies. Investigate what her hobbies (for example, likes to read), then the husband is obliged to buy a book or other.

2. Make Him Healthy corporal You should not be selfish. Because it is your own need to create cooperation, such as exercising together. This physical activity can make you be very healthy, for example, could also meet
stimulation of a passionate wife big. Create a wife that makes blood vessels pass. So that begituan minds to be minus. Some of its energy is depleted.

3. Expand your horizons Once again, you do not be selfish. Encourage your wife to add insight, for example if there are seminars on sexual or other seminars, or if there is a music concert and exhibition of sculpture and painting are good, you invite him. Take also a discussion about this. This will broaden her horizons as well as you.

4. Take Time For "It" If he's connected with whom, obey, and do not refuse. But you must prepare yourself, for example, a drug that can cultivate your sexual passion. Create Easterners (Arabs, Chinese, Persian), to my knowledge, honey and eggs is a panacea for that one, provided that regularly every day. Ginseng in Korea.

Prescription Medication Skin Diseases

2009-12-21T17:03:00.000+07:00

Skin Desease (Panu) including a mild skin disease, and contagious. Transmission of the disease is mainly with the intersection, for clothing, towels. Panu makes people feel inferior, especially if phlegm is in our face. Panu caused a kind of fungus or mold which interrupted its growth center in between the thighs or breasts.
We recommend:
a. Bathroom is clean and orderly.
b. Clean environment and sunlight.
c. Avoid borrowing clothes, towels for people with skin fungus disease.
Treatment:
a. Take galangal or fresh laos beat pulp could be added a little water and scrub in which phlegm is growing.
b. Take sulfur and finely ground coupled with lime juice, a little salt, rub the regular morning and afternoon.
c.
1) Chinese ketepeng leaves one cell.
2) whiting (a little), sulfur (less)
After everything is mashed with a little water added can be used as a liniment which panu grow. Dry phlegm regularly until healed.
Other Ways
Material:
a. Methylated 50 cc
b. Salysil acid 5 grams

Directions:
1. Methylated and mixed until blended salysil acid (without heating)
Note: Avoid eye because the drug outside and away from the kids.

Hair fertilizer recipe

2009-12-21T16:50:00.005+07:00

Material:
a. Juice rose 300 cc
b. Alcohol 100 cc
c. Castor Olie 20 grams
d. Rozen tinnetuur 10 grams

Directions: The four ingredients are mixed into one and then we filtered, and taken the most subtle.
Usage: Wash with this recipe and let stand about 30 minutes, then rinse three times until clean.

Hair fertilizer recipe

2009-12-21T16:50:00.004+07:00

A Leader Or A Manager

2009-12-19T16:17:00.000+07:00

A Leader is different from a manager. Manager can be leaders. Leaders don't have to be managers. To understand the distinction between to lead and to manage, compare their impact to the organization. To leadmeans to influence, to guide ind direction, course, action, and opinion, while to managemeans to ring about, to accomplish, to have responsibility for, to coduct. The difference may be summarized as activities of vision and judgement-effectiveness (leading)- versus activities of mastering routines-effeciency (managing). Managers emphasize system, structures, controls, and actions intended to acheive predictability and order. Leaders engage in extensive communication to elicit and act on ideas. Ultimately, leaders articulate thoughts in simplified visions that provide people with a sense of direction. Managers are people who do things right, leaders are people who do the right thing.

On global level, for example, the international statesman Nelson Mandela has ejoled and inspired political leaders to work reducing oppression and sharing political power. His goal was to acheive racial equality in his historically segregated South Africa homeland. Mandela as President of South Africa is definitely a leader. But a manager? Proabably not.

Do You Enjoy Being A Leader?
For each statement, circle the number on the scale that best describes you.
1. I like to stand out from the crowd. ( 1 2 3 4 5 )
2. I feel proud and satisfied when I influence others to do things my way ( 1 2 3 4 5 )
3. I enjoy doing things as part of group rather than achieving results on my own ( 1 2 3 4 5 )
4. I have a history of becoming an officer or captain in clubs and or organized sport ( 1 2 3 4 5 )
5. I try to be the one who is most influential in task group at school or work. ( 1 2 3 4 5 )
6. In group, I care most about good relationships. ( 1 2 3 4 5 )

7. In group, I most want to acheive task goals ( 1 2 3 4 5 )

The scale value of the statements is 1 to 5 / from strongly agree. Add the scale value you circled on item 1 through 5. If you total score is 20 or more (strongly agree), you are likely to enjoy being a leader. If 10 or less, at this time in your life you are likely more interested in personal achievement. If your score hn the middle range, your leadership potential could go either direction, depending on event.
As a leader, your style is suggested by your responses to item 6 through 7. For items 6 and 7, if your score is higher on 6 (than 7), you may more concerned about relationships.

Oil Perfume Recipe

2009-12-17T12:42:00.000+07:00

Material:

a. 15 cc of perfume Seeds

b. Hekslin 15 cc

c. Alcohol 100 cc

Method:

1. The three substances were inserted into the bottle and shake-shake until solution is completely mixed.

2. After that put in a spray bottle or given a gas balloon.

Prescription Want Thin, and Trim

2009-12-17T12:41:00.000+07:00

Prescription Want Thin, Trim and singset There are two ways:

a. Three young pomegranates until finely ground freshly brewed with as many as one glass of warm water mixed with a little salt and stirred, filtered water. Drink one time every morning before or after meals do for about 7 days.
b. Drink the tea bitter that given half a lemon to do three times a day after meals.

How to be a good english learner?

2009-12-17T11:10:00.000+07:00

To be a good english learner is a dream of every learner has oportunity to be that. He can understand English easier than the others. Of course many people will support him. The fact to be a good english learner is not easy as we think. He lives with many people who have different characters, so he will get influence from them. If he can solve the problems, he will get success. On the other hands, if he can not do that, he will get failure. Even to be a good english learner is not easy, every learner should effort to get it. As we know, life is struggle and struggle needs sacrifice. In order to be a good english learner, there are some character: firstly, clear purpose, second: good attention, diligence, good motivation, politness and praying to God.

Firstly, clear purpose means everly learner should have clear puepose to reach his ambition. Why he learn english? The spirit should be from the heart. No one can force some one to learn english. It will make learner free and can catch the material from teachers easily. We can say that clear purpose is the basic thing to give support and colour during learning english. The result, the learner can understand and practice english easily.

Clear purpose is the description about his future. For example, the students want to be a good english learner, a profesional doctor, a famous author or a good general. Of course, to rech those jobs he has to be master in English. So, he should study hard in English, he will get a profession which he wants and he can work not only in Indonesia but also in the other countries. Do not change your purpose because of your circumstances.

Secondly, good attention is very important to be a good english learner should be able to make fun during learning english from beginning until the end. He should try to love english by some ways, by a listening english song, making an english poem, reading an english novel, or watching an english movie. Please avoid feeling bored. If you get it, you will get problems. Finally, the learner is able to study english happily during lerning english.

Plese make the condition fun in learning english. Do not make the condition very serious, it will make the learner become under pressured. Actually he can use learning by doing and playing. For example, mastering the vocabularies is playing drama, singing an english song or watching movie with our friends. God Willing, lerner will be easily to learn english.

Thirdly is diligence. Learner should learn english diligently. He has to use the time as good as possible. Don’t wait what you can do now. A good learner should read many english books, magazines, and also a dictionary. The material is not only from his teachers but also fom many places. If he has gotten many materials in english, please practice as good as possible. Don’t be shy to practice english. On the other hand we can say “Learning by Doing” without any boring.

Fourtly, good motivation gives support during learning English. A learner should have a big motivation. Why? Because during learning english, a learner usually feels bored. It is very dangerous if he can not solve this problem. So the best key is remembering the motivation.

Prescription Liquid Hair Oil (hair oil)

2009-12-16T01:02:00.008+07:00

Material:
a. Seeds fragrance 20 cc
b. Dyes / teres taste
c. 1 liter of liquid paraffin
Directions:
1. The three ingredients we mixed in one container and then we mix well.
2. Let stand for 1 hour for a clear oil.

Prescription Liquid Hair Oil (hair oil)

2009-12-16T01:02:00.007+07:00

Prescription Medication Mosquito Bar

2009-12-16T01:01:00.010+07:00

Material: a. Flowers petram 225 grams b. Wulu Janger (flour) 125 grams c. Water 500 grams d. Insect Powder 5 grams e. Malacite green 125 grams f. Sendowo 5 grams
Directions: 1. Insect flour, flowers and flour wulu petram Janger until finely ground.
2. Enter in the pan of water.
3. Enter sendowo and malaeite, stirring until evenly distributed.
4. 3 batter is poured into molds and dried in the sun to dry.

Toothache medicine (perforated)

2009-12-16T01:01:00.009+07:00

Material: a. 6 grams of salt b. 4 pieces of betel leaf (crushed) c. 6 grams alum d. 3 cups water
Directions: 1. Materials a, b, c, and d boiled to boil down into one glass, then used to rinse.

Dry Shampoo Recipe (powder)

2009-12-16T01:01:00.008+07:00

Material:
a. Sodium carbonate (soda) 500 grams
b. Borax 250 grams
c. Sapo cococs 250 grams
d. Fragrant oil seed to taste

Directions:
1. Combine ingredients cococs sapo, sodium carbonate and borax and pounded until smooth and while stirring.
2. And the three ingredients that have been pounded smooth filtered and retrieved.
3. Combine perfume and stirred.

Dry Shampoo Recipe (powder)

2009-12-16T01:01:00.007+07:00

Prescription Anti Cockroach (Ants)

2009-12-15T03:05:00.000+07:00

Material: a. 4 grams of borax b. 4 grams of wheat flour
Directions: Borax and wheat flour mixed together, sprinkle the place with a lot of ants and cockroaches it flat so the ants will flee or die.

Resep Obat Nyamuk Gosok (oles)

2009-12-15T03:04:00.000+07:00

Mosquitoes Rub Prescription Drugs (topical)

Material:
a. Eucalyptus oil 20 cc
b. 10 grams of menthol
c. Alcohol 70% 500 cc
d. Champer spt 300 cc
e. Clove oil 20 cc

Directions:
1. Eucalyptus oil, alcohol, champer spt and clove blended into one.
2. After mixing all the new po menthol mixed until blended.
3. Take the filter to smooth the mixture / clear the mixture and pack tightly in a bottle.

Benefits Leaves Gout Remedy

2009-12-15T03:03:00.007+07:00

Leaves of gout is from Sri Lanka by the name of the plant Plumbago Zeylania, in Central Java is known by the name: Godong Gout, boma or poksor.

Benefits:
a. Treating Rheumatism
Take 15 grams of leaves are still fresh gout, add one tablespoon of whiting, then mash until smooth. Smeared on the body of the sick, and do the treatment until healed.

B. Overcoming stuttering Diabetes
Take a handful of leaves gout, add fennel pulosari taste. Mash the ingredients until smooth, paste this herb in the position of the bladder for 30 minutes.

C. Headache Medication
Pepeslah leaves a handful of fresh gout, add a tablespoon of coconut oil, until the dough is so mushy. Put the dough is at the temples of the head, such as wearing patches. Use no more than 30 minutes, because the skin may blister.

Shampoo Recipes Coditioner

2009-12-15T03:03:00.006+07:00

Material:
a. Paraffin oil 50 cc
b. Aqua 1 liter
c. Sulfonated ol olivarrum 75% 0.5 liters
d. Sulfonated ol 75% 0.5 liters ricini
e. Perfume to taste

Directions:
1. Sulfonated olivarrum ol, ol racini sulfonated and used as a liquid paraffin and stir until blended.
2. Then left in place for approximately 3 new day filtered.
3. Distilled water (aquades) and perfume mixed with no.1 distillate and mix until blended.

Shampoo Recipes Coditioner

2009-12-15T03:03:00.005+07:00

Liquid Shampoo Recipe

2009-12-15T03:02:00.004+07:00

Material:
a. 1 cup cooking water
b. 5 grams of table salt
c. Sulfafon / texafon 50 grams
d. Dyes taste
e. Seeds perfume 2 cc

Directions:
1. Solfafon and salt put into a container and stir until blended.
2. Dissolve salt sofafon and this, given the water little by little and then we stir until like mucus.
3. Then seed perfume and dye is inserted in the container was stirred until smooth. After all ingredients had been flat then put in a bottle. And if you want to market their branded (etiquette) of interest for consumers interested in products that you create.

Liquid Shampoo Recipe

2009-12-15T03:02:00.003+07:00

Tofu Recipes

2009-12-14T05:12:00.000+07:00

Material: a.kedelai taste b.gilingan know
Method:
1) wash soybeans and soak for 10 hours then remove and insert the bucket.
2) Then digilig and soybean were filtered off and taken the starch extract.
3) Sari starch boiled and then filtered with a soft cloth.
4) Then molded and pressed with weights for ± 3 hours.

Recipes Geplak Jogja

2009-12-14T05:11:00.000+07:00

1.Resep Geplak Jogja
Material: a. 10 grains young coconut b. 3 kg sugar c. Esence fruits 4 cc d. Kesumba color taste
Method: 1) Young Coconut grated harshly. 2) included sugar with enough water until thickened, then enter esence and kesumba. 3) After that stir up a new sticky printed in accordance with the taste to our taste, among others: a round, flat, oval.

Liquid Shoe Polish recipes (chocolate)

2009-12-13T07:28:00.000+07:00

Material:
a. Acetone 200th cc
b. Oleum formed thinae 100 cc
c. Cera alba 20 grams
d. 10 grams of pigment color
e. 10 grams of potassium

How to Make:
1. Oleum, cera alba and dyes are mixed together and stirred until smooth.
2. Acetone and potassium enter the in another container, mix well.
3. Mix (1) enter in the mix (2) little by little, so you can easily mix it.
4. Enter in a bottle and give it an interesting etiquette ready for the market.
5. To change the color of polish, can we do using the pigment (coloring).

Global warming? What can we do?

2009-12-13T00:18:00.000+07:00

If we talk about the Environment’s day, we will talk about global warming. Between environment and global warmingwill influence each other. Because of the damaged environment will cause global warming. Global warming is not strange thing. We know that it is so familiar in our hearing. Many medias inform about it. We know that it so gangerous for life in the world. By the way what is global warming? Global warming is the increasing of temperature in the atmosphere that it caused by gasses pollutant. One of them is CO_2.It is combution coals and gasses. It is produced by engine from factories, motors, and cars. These gasses will form a space in earth surface. It will cover the earth and earth’s temperature will increase. This event is called Green House Effect. Green House Effect is unquestionably real and helps to regulate the temperature of our planet. It will cause the atmosphere will be hot. Some it will change in glacier length. Artic and antartic sea ice will decrease. It will cause sea’s surface higher. So what will happened with our earth in future? Many islands will sink and will damaged human’s habitat.

Students must have responsibility to keep environment. It will save the earth from damaged. If we take care to our environment, it means that we’ll reduce and prevent the global warming. Human’s care has big function to save our generation in future. Can you imagine with our genration in future. Can you imagine with our generation if the environment damaged? So, what can we do to prevent the global warming?

Stop illegal logging! This activity will damage our forest that it produces oxygen in the earth.
Get ready for green era! Keep the plants around our life and don’t cut the trees.
Save the resources of energy! They are water, electricity, gas oil and coal, etc.
Walk, walk, walk for near place! Reduce the using of motor or car.
Love our environment! Keep it is like our friend.

Beside that, we have to be able to do 3 R in our life. They are reduce, reuse, recycle. It has important role to prevent global warming. We should begin it from ourselves before we order people. It is our responsible to save our earth for new generation. Global warming is about our life, now and then. So, guys tight your belt, get ready for green era. Before lets memorize what you should know about global warming. SAVE AND LOVE OUR EARTH GREEN TERRTITORY, GLOBAL WARMING NO DOUBTH. STOP GLOBAL WARMING NOW!!

Shoe Polish recipes (like kiwis)

2009-12-12T19:35:00.000+07:00

Material:
a. 0.5 liters of oil terpertin
b. Linceed of 20 grams
c. Black dye / pigment 20 grams
d. 0.5 kg of yellow night

Directions: 1. Put the night in one container and then heated until melted.
2. Dyes and linceed included stir until blended.
3. Enter terpertin oil very slowly to the stirring evenly.
4. Turn off the heat, then pour into small cans.
5. After the cold polish will freeze.
6. Give an interesting etiquette, ready to be marketed.

Rubber Glue Recipes

2009-12-12T19:34:00.000+07:00

Material:
a. Crape Rubber 1 ounce
b. Petrol 500 cc
c. 20 grams of mastic varnish

Directions:
1. Crape rubber soaked in gasoline during 30 minutes.
2. After the rubber crumbled into the batter (jlandren) enter the varnish.
3. Third Stir ingredients until evenly distributed.
4. After so glue, put in a bottle and sealed so as not to evaporate or dry.

Moral Values

2009-12-12T16:06:00.000+07:00

We know that in this period there are some the bad of activities students at school. Why? Why there want to the bad students? I think if all of us know, the students, especially in Junior High School and Senior High School through puberty.

And know I have a question. Who must give them advice and also make them chence appoint as the good student? Yes, and this answer is, certain their parents and their teachers. The parents must always monitory theur activities at school, and the teacher must give conviction, if there are some bad students.

For example of the bad activitaies students: smoke, give colour at their hair, use axtra accessories, do not to use interest equipment, play truant, request money at other friends, and other friends.

First one is smoke, usually we lok their smoke in the place hidden at school. For this problem, some times the teachers must execute examination at the place hidden, which that places is place for smoke the students.

Second one is give colour at their hair. If teachers know that there are the students give colour at their hair, usually they will cut off the student’s hair. But besides with that way, i also have another way. We can execute value in every Friday or Saturday.

Third one, use extra accessories and do not use interest equipment. For these problem we back at second problem. Like the second problem some times must execute value, for example in every Friday and Saturday. After that if there are some students with performance and style lake this, the teachers must give advice and conviction, so that they will not ever repeat again.

Fourth one is play truant. Usually the students will play truant during one until two hours or even until some days. In this problem, usually if this student has to often for play truant, than he or she will out from their school.

Five one is request money at other friends. Why? Why they do not said with their friend? I think, this is because at the home, their parents never give known if that is the said think.

Okay, that is all are some the bad activites students at school. All of you as techers, students, and parents must remember, remember, and remember with moral valuse at the school. If we are as students want to the good students, we must always remember that you are not actor and actress, so don’t you occur like stars.

Do you want to gain higher grades in school?

2009-12-12T14:54:00.000+07:00

As students, you and I have to read many books, have to comprehend their contents and have to stick them in our memory in a limited time. You can do this effectively if you understand some facts about human memory and improve your reading skill. Because by knowing about human memori in improving your reading skill you will understand the lesson quickly and memorize it rapidly. Then you will get higher grades and become a better students.

Now we will learn about the nature of forgetting. The research indicated that not all materials of lesson forgotten at the same rate. As an example, a story is more easy to remember than other subject. And, for a particular lesson, not all students forget at the same rate too.

Interestingly, the prime factor is not superiority of their memory but this phenomena is more affected by students learning habits and their attitude to a particular lesson, he or she, tend more easy to stick this lesson to his or her memory. On the oter hand, if a students don’t like a subject, he or she tend more difficilt to stick this subject matter in his or her mind.

After we understand the nature of forgetting, what can we do to attack this difficulty? First at all, a student have to develop intersest to a lesson and intent to get through understanding and to remember the lesson.

The second method is by distributed learning. The meaning of distributed learning is instead trying to master the entire lesson at one time, distributed the laerning over a number short time period.

A similar task may interfere with the prevous learning. For example in memorysing a poem. There will be more rapid forgetting if its is followed immediately by study of another poem than if some other activity follow. So, a students may well reward hmself with a brief period of rest efter finishing a lesson and before starting a new one.

Then, when we’ll read the lesson book, use Survey-Question-Read-Recite and Review (SQ3R) methode. Before we read a a lesson book, we surveying this book by glance over the heading in the chapter to see the few big points which will be developed. Read also the summary paragraph. This is shall be done only in minutes. Then, turn the paragraph heading into question (Q). After that, read (R) the book to search the answer of the question.

After reading a headedsection, turn away from your book and recite (R) the answer of your question with your own words with jotting cite phrasses in outline from on a sheet of paper.

When a chapter of the book has bee read, review the contents of this chapter by look over your notes to get over al view of the points you have read. Then, chech your memory by covering up the notes and tryng to recall the main points. After that, expose each major point and try recall the subpoits listed under it.

Lem Prescription Glass

2009-12-12T14:14:00.000+07:00

Material:
a. Chicken egg white 3 point
b. Gum arabic 2 oz brown
c. Aqua ............... 100 cc

Directions:
1. Take aqua pour in a container.
2. Gom arab soaked in aqua for 24 hour.
3. After the gum arabic mix soft white eggs, and stir until blended.
4. Insert the bottle packaging and labeled if not marketed.

Quick Sablon Practice

2009-12-11T18:54:00.000+07:00

Material:
a. Photos, drawings, stickers Copied
b. Media that printed paper, cloth
c. M3 thinner oil, fuji sol 3
d. Alas screen printing: glass, ceramics, wood
e. Cotton
f. Scouring tool: a spoon, a coin.

Directions:
1. Figure adapted with a photo copy cut the size of the screened material.
2. When menyablon colored by using stickers cleaned with kerosene.
3. Materials that will be screened, placed on glass, wood or tile, then apply oil to the appliance that will be screen printing on screen printing.
4. Paste the image that is printed with ink that is the position of a copy, navigate to the fabric.
5. Above image backed photo copy paper and then rub it flat for about 3 minutes.
6. Questionnaire slowly drawing and screen printing on fabric already out of the picture we want.

Pen ink recipe

2009-12-11T18:41:00.000+07:00

Material:
a. Alcohol 50 cc ...............
b. Oil glyserine ............... 150 cc
c. Anyline basic marine blue ............... 50 grams

Directions:
1. Alcohol mixed with basic marine blue mix well.
2. Combine glyserine into the mixture (1) mix well.
3. Enter the above mixture, into a plastic or metal pipe which is open both ends, by using (spet) syringe or pipette.
4. Close one eye pen if thats enough content.

Paper Glue Recipes Liquids

2009-12-11T17:46:00.000+07:00

Material:
a. Phenol.............. 10 grams phenol
b. Aquades ............... 500 cc
c. Gummi arab ............... 350 cc

Directions:
1. Gummi arab soak in water aquades for 4 days.
2. Mix (1), stirring until evenly and then filtered with a thin cloth or flour sieve (strainer).
3. Penol Combine liquid mix well.

Chalk Recipes

2009-12-11T17:39:00.000+07:00

Material:
a. Calcium carbonate 100 grams ...............
b. Gibs ............... 20 grams Flour
c. Arabiche ............... 10 grams
d. Clean water ............... 30 cc

Directions:
1. Enter the calcium carbonate of pot.
2. Add water and stir until evenly distributed.
3. Insert flour arabiche gibs and stir until smooth.
4. Prepare the mold of zinc or plastic.
5. Grease a mold with oil to prevent sticking.
6. Pour the batter 3, into the mold.
7. Once frozen remove from molds and sun to dry.

Recipes to Make Writing Ink

2009-12-11T14:13:00.000+07:00

Materials needed: a. Alcohol 50 cc ............... b. Aqua water 150 cc ............... c. Basic aniline marine blue ............... 2 cc d. Basic aniline violet ............... 2 cc
Directions: 1. C and d powder mixed into one.
2. Alcohol mixed with aquades.
3. Enter the solution 2 into solution 1 bit by bit, stirring until blended.
4. After all the mixed solution, before it is inserted into the packaging solution, filtered with a cloth to clean and quality.

Recipes to Make Ink Markers

2009-12-10T18:18:00.000+07:00

Material: a. Alcohol 50 cc ............... b. Basic aniline red marine ............... 15 grams c. Glysol ............... 5 grams
Directions: 1. Combine alcohol with aniline, stir until blended.
2. Add glysol into, mix 1, mix well.
3. Take a sponge / foam inside the markers.
4. Insert one end of the free into the solution 2.
5. Once the cork is wet, put in markers ready for use.